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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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How to Stay Comfortable in Difficult Bondage Positions
As a slave, your goal is to make sure that your Master is happy at all times. Whether you are in or out of the dungeon, you need to be sure you are following the rules and doing as you are told. But this doesn’t mean it’s always going to be easy – or even comfortable. When you’re a slave in a bondage situation, it’s
Writing on a Sub’s Body
Words are more powerful than we realize but those who practice BDSM already know this A Master or Mistress who carefully writes on their slave 8217 s body will create a lasting impression even long after the words have been washed away
Choosing a Slave Name
A name is something that defines who we are, even when we don’t choose it ourselves. Our parents gave us a name for a particular reason, but when you’re in a relationship with a BDSM partner, it might become time to take on a slave name, just as a Master or Mistress might take on their title. Creating the separation between these two roles allows
Using Rough Textures in BDSM
When you are interested in changing the way that you play with another person, you need to switch things up. Though they might like the sensation play that you do, over time, anyone will grow accustomed to the way that something feels on their skin. And since you can’t always use something harder on a person, you need to find new textures that will help
Closet Dungeon Ideas
Having the space to have BDSM fun is a bit of a luxury for most people. Not all of us can have fully equipped dungeons and basements, after all. With smaller spaces, like closets, you can still have a place to not only stash your BDSM gear, but also a slave that needs to learn a lesson. You can use even the smallest space to
Preventing Subdrop
When you’re a slave, you might not realize just how much a scene can take out of you. While you might be floating away on an endorphin cloud, the truth is that your body is undergoing a lot of changes and it might not be something that will cause you pleasure for a long period of time. Instead, you might begin to feel awful in
Ending a Dom/sub Relationship in a Healthy Way
While breakups are never easy, they can become more complicated in a BDSM relationship. Because the relationship is based on one person trying to please another, a breakup can seem as though the slave has not done his or her job. Though this might be a part of the reason, usually breakups come from two people growing apart. Whatever the reason, there are better ways
The Steps to Teaching a Lesson to a Submissive
If you’re new to the idea of having a sub, then you might not know where to begin. You’ve seen how BDSM relationships play out in movies and in books, but when it comes to real life settings, that’s when things get tricky. You can’t instantly train a sub. Training begins with a series of steps to create trust between you and your slave, a
Domme Question: How Can I Be A Hard Ass Dominatrix
Domme Question: I am new and I love your emails on how to. My friend has introduced me to BDSM and he is the submissive one. This really gets me going. I get hot just thinking about it. My prob. with being the Dome is that I am a pleaser and I am way too gentle. I like to relax him before I take it
Valentine’s & BDSM
Many people assume that just because someone is into BDSM that their whole lives most revolve around it 24/7. Well I’m sorry to burst the illusion for some people, but even people who live a 24/7 lifestyle still have hobbies, work, family and even romance outside of BDSM. That’s right, many Dom/me will put down their favorite flogger and let go of their sub’s leash
Moving from a Part Time to Full Time Submissive
Your role as a slave might change all the time. One day you might be in a scene where you need to move around a lot in order to please your Master/Mistress and the next day you might be strung up in bondage and told not to move a muscle. Simple examples, sure, but these do demonstrate the different needs and goals in being a
One Way To Test Their Training
Your slave wants your attention and they’re willing to do everything they can in order to ensure you’re always looking at them and paying attention to them. And while you often give them attention during training, a slave will begin to realize that you’re always going to give them attention so long as they are acting the way you want them to to while you
