BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
If you’re taking on a new slave, you might have a number of reasons for doing so. And even if you think the new slave is going to fulfill a purpose that the other did not, you need to consider your own training methods before you invite this slave into your life. While you might think that your own methods of slave training worked just […]
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Being a Master is hard work, but so might be the work he does outside of the dungeon. As the slave, it’s your duty to make sure your Master is always feeling worshiped and relaxed, even when his fatigue has nothing to do with your training. At the end of a long day, a Master wants to feel as though his slave is willing to
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The slave interview: a time when slave relationships are begun or ended just as quickly. While some Masters and Mistresses would rather choose a person they’ve met through friends or through BDSM parties and events, deciding to see if they’re a good fit as the training continues, a long term and serious slave and Owner relationship begins with a serious interview. Just as with any
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Restriction is something that most slaves crave. They want to be bundled up as tightly as possible so that they are completely helpless, completely subdued. Many a slave has tried to mummify themselves when they were alone, longing for complete encasement, but never able to find it in a safe way. Masters and Mistresses can use the concept of mummification to help their slaves finally
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Taking your BDSM out into the world isn’t something that’s for everyone. Some people prefer to keep their proclivities in private, enjoying these relationships in their own homes. But if you’re looking for a little more excitement or you’re just curious to see what the public BDSM scene is like, you might want to step outside of your home or apartment to find out how
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***************************************************What Does It All Mean?*************************************************** As a male slave, you’re ready to do anything to please your Master or your Mistress. But what you have a secret desire, a secret fantasy as well that hasn’t had a chance to play out? If you’ve dreamed of sissy play, you’re not alone. Many male slaves are interested in becoming a sissy for a session or for a
As the girl for your Master, you have a lot of responsibilities on your plate beyond your everyday life. And at times, you have to admit, things are not as easy or as fun as you thought they might be. You might become frustrated not only with what you have to do, but also with the fact that you’re not the best ‘girl’ you can
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A look is all it takes for some slaves to feel like they are in their place. If you’re a Mistress who wants to be that woman who can simply turn to their slave and remind them of their position, you’re not alone. The idea of humiliating your slave without words is one that turns on many a BDSM practitioner, but how do you achieve
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As the Master, you have a number of duties on your proverbial plate. And while you may think wielding a whip is enough to get your slave to do what you want her to do, that’s only a part of your role as a dominant. In your chosen position, you have to also project confidence at all times so that the slave knows you’re the
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For some, the whole point of bondage, spanking and other BDSM activities is to lead up to an inevitable sex scene which is more enjoyable because of all of the adrenaline which has been built up through punishments and pain. But for others, just the play, Domination and submission that goes along with BDSM is all they want. Some people who live a kinky life
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