BDSM Question I think the real problem that causes subs to misbehave is that there is an insecure feeling about how to start a nice evening. Let me tell you how it started to go wrong with me and my former Master (and relation). The only way I ever started a session was by saying ‘honey do you want to come upstairs so we can […]
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The positions that your slave can place themselves in for you are a great way to measure the training progress of a beginner as well as an advanced slave. No matter where your slave is, they should be able to present themselves to you in your chosen way.
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The stereotypical image of a Master is a man in leather who simply takes a woman up over his shoulder and forces her to do whatever he wants her to do. And basically, this is the case with most BDSM relationships. However, just as there are many flavors of ice cream, there are also many ‘flavors’ of Masters. If you’re still struggling to find your
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While you might think otherwise, not all Mistresses are the same. Though they share the same quality of dominating a slave, the way in which they provide this domination can vary from relationship to relationship. In order to make sure you present yourself as the ‘right’ sort of Mistress for the slave you have in mind, you will want to think about where you fit
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As a slave, you have a lot of responsibilities to your Master/Mistress. You have to show him that you are listening to what he is telling you and that you are going to do what he commands you to do. Even though you might not have thought you were going to be a good slave in the beginning, over time, and with dedication, you have
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As a slave, your goal is to make sure that your Master is happy at all times. Whether you are in or out of the dungeon, you need to be sure you are following the rules and doing as you are told. But this doesn’t mean it’s always going to be easy – or even comfortable. When you’re a slave in a bondage situation, it’s
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A name is something that defines who we are, even when we don’t choose it ourselves. Our parents gave us a name for a particular reason, but when you’re in a relationship with a BDSM partner, it might become time to take on a slave name, just as a Master or Mistress might take on their title. Creating the separation between these two roles allows
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When you are interested in changing the way that you play with another person, you need to switch things up. Though they might like the sensation play that you do, over time, anyone will grow accustomed to the way that something feels on their skin. And since you can’t always use something harder on a person, you need to find new textures that will help
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Having the space to have BDSM fun is a bit of a luxury for most people. Not all of us can have fully equipped dungeons and basements, after all. With smaller spaces, like closets, you can still have a place to not only stash your BDSM gear, but also a slave that needs to learn a lesson. You can use even the smallest space to
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When you’re a slave, you might not realize just how much a scene can take out of you. While you might be floating away on an endorphin cloud, the truth is that your body is undergoing a lot of changes and it might not be something that will cause you pleasure for a long period of time. Instead, you might begin to feel awful in
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