BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
One thing that is inevitable in life is time continues to tick away. However, on every 365th day of the year, a new year is born and for many a fresh start to beginning something new. But the choice must be made by you, do you continue to do the same old thing you have done every other year. Or do you choose to do […]
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Another year has come and passed. Many people enjoy to celebrate for the holiday season and each way is as unique as the individual. W/we kinky people are no different except for how W/we may choose to celebrate the festive season. So the question is what do you do to celebrate your kinky desires within the seasonal festivities? What is your favorite way to decorate
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A slave who is dedicated to being a slave to a particular Master or Mistress might want to show their intention with something more permanent than a paper contract. Or a slave who is simply dedicated to being a slave for life might want to create a permanent marking on themselves to help remind them of their purpose and their goal in life. Tattoos can
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Kinksgiving The time of year to be thankful and grateful. To appreciate everything in your life.W/we wanted to show O/our appreciation to all the amazingly beautiful kinksters who have followed and supported U/us for all these years. Please celebrate all your kinky desires with a special discount so you can enjoy more for less. Just enter the coupon code “kinksgiving18” at checkout at the bdsmtoyshop.com
Submissive Question I need help, i am in a long distance D/s relationship with my Mistress. I try to serve her obediently but my commitment fades. I only stay with my tasks for a short time and then stop doing it and forget about it. What can i do to reinforce my commitment and willpower to follow through all that my Mistress wants me to
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Sometimes, you just need to switch things up and you need to make your slave feel all the more helpless than they already do when they are serving you in your dungeon. You’ve done the traditional bondage methods and you’ve begun a training program, but you need to test your slave even more. This is where armbinding can be a useful tool. Restrictive and immediate,
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I am a slave in a dedicated, long-term loving M/s relationship. I have been with my Master for 25 years. The first 18 as husband and wife, and then for the past 7 yrs. W/we have nurtured and grown our relationship into a consensual loving Master, slave relationship. Having come into the lifestyle from an existing loving relationship has provided some unique challenges but also
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Loving the slave mini course. Really had changed my way of viewing the BDSM lifestyle. How do I get my husband to be more interested in it? I think he feels creepy. I’ve tried to get him to read more about it so he can see it’s not all dungeons and pain. He’s used handcuffs on me and he loves to spank! But I’m having
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Here at the BDSM Training Academy, W/we personally hand pick every new toy and piece of gear W/we use. There is just something exciting about breaking in a new toy. The shinny packaging, the smell from the material, the unique feel of each material and the brand new sensations that are produced with each moment. New toys and gear always add extra pleasures to play,
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