BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
If you have an interest in BDSM, I’m sure at one point or another you have heard the mentioning of the “Diagnostic And Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders” (DSM). This is essentially the bible of the mental health professional in the United States, essentially it is used to classify mental disorders. In this manual there are a list of mental disorders known as “paraphilias” A […]
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I have been in talks with Sassy May (a local model) about creating some VERY VERY special photos just for all of you at the BDSM Training Academy. She is very eager to be submissive and follow instruction, so if you have any ideas on how Sassy May should appear in future pictures just leave a comment below and W/we’ll add it to the list.
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I am a submissive married to my master and we have a 2 year old. I want to know if you have training tips or some kind of site that I can learn from that would help me. I can never really feel like I can give to my daddy because I put my child first. It’s kinda hard to explain really. But I just
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Inspiration struck yesterday and I just had to let those thoughts out. Here is a quick little poem I wrote about the love of spanking. I hope you like it. Master Bishop
Since W/we are always on the lookout for new and exciting kinky toys for O/ourselves, W/we like to add the best ones to the BDSM Toy Shop, so you can enjoy them as well. It’s all about spreading the kink here at the BDSM Training Academy. Have a look at some of O/our new additions. For those submissives who want a little more pink in
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(A journal entry by sub-kathleen) Recently events have caused me to reflect on this amazing journey i am sharing with my Master. How it began and where we are today and some of the Whys… i recall beginning with the conversation… Telling my husband of 18 years that i had these desires…Then exploring and learning about the many intricacies of the BDSM lifestyle and more
Dom/me Question: My boyfriend and I just recently started dating though we’ve been best friends for almost four years. He loves being dominated and is a masochist. He knows a lot about BDSM and loves the sub aspect of it. I’m very new to being dom and would love to know a few things. Talking to him about the things he likes has been helping
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i am a slave devoted to the loving care, happiness and desires of my Master. But recently it was beginning to feel as if i had no tools, no training, no clue or understanding about how to help that one most important person in my life, my Master. It is amazing how unbalanced you can feel when the person who takes care of all your
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Everything I read is about pleasing the Dominant. Is there ever a time when attention is focused on the submissive’s pleasure? Or is a submissive’s life just about serving and pleasing the Dominant for the rest of their life to never receive pleasure again? Anonymous =========================== Master Bishop’s Opinion  Reading about what happens in a BDSM relationship and actually being in one are two
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Though you may try to be the best submissive you can be, there will be times when you fail. There will be times when you let your Master down and they are displeased with you. While you will hopefully not be trying to make your Master mad at you, when you do disappoint them, you can use this time as a learning opportunity, allowing you
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