BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
I want to introduce mild pain – and my boyfriend is very very reluctant to go there. he trusts me, and knows I would not injure him, but this is not a place he wants to go, nor does he think he can find it pleasurable – even if accepting it pleases me. I can’t force it on him. I can’t take an attitude of […]
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Female submissives are certainly going to encounter challenges in their training, even when they least expect it. No matter if a slave has been under the control of a Master for a while or just for a short period, there is a time when the slave will wonder if their Master is going to hurt them or if they are truly able to satisfy their
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Whether you are new to BDSM or you are a more experienced couple, you need to remember the basics in the dungeon. When you’re prepared for any scene and for any training session, you don’t have to worry. All you’ll need to focus on is what you need to do in order to create a better training session and a more intense experience for everyone
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Kinky Claus and everybody at the BDSM Training Academy would like to wish everybody a Merry Christmas and happy holidays to you and yours. Hopefully you are able to share a bit more kink with that one special person in your life. Because the holidays are all about giving! Sincerely, Kinky Claus and the BDSM Training Academy Team
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One of the biggest misconceptions I hear from people about Dom/sub relationships is that the relationship is only about sex. While some Dom/sub relationships can be, for many a Dom/sub relationship involves so much more. A Dom/sub relationship gives people involved an opportunity to live a completely harmonious and balanced life with their partner in an emotional, spiritual and physical capacity. It develops a relationship
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BDSM is a practice of handing over the care of your body to another, or someone else is giving control of their body to you. One of the things that many BDSM lovers say drew them to BDSM is that it is the ultimate experience of trust. When you are in a BDSM scene or in a relationship, you need to be able to both
Having a hard time trying to think of gift ideas for the coming holidays? Give something that the both of you can enjoy. Try something that you can give multiple times throughout the year and they can enjoy receiving each time. Those are the gifts everybody loves receiving the best. A gift that gets everybody in the festive and giving spirit. The BDSM Toy Shop
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Pain isn’t always a part of a slave’s existence, but in most BDSM relationships, it does play some role. When your Master/Mistress is someone who wants to see just how much pain you can take, you need to be ready to take it all – and to do so with grace and appreciation. After all, it takes a lot of energy for your Dom/me to
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Safety is everything in a relationship and it’s even more important when you’re practicing BDSM. In order to make sure that you’re having a safe interaction with your partner, you need to follow some basic rules of sanitation and boundaries so that you’re able to practice BDSM without harming your health or the health of your partner. *************************************************** Basic Safety Rules *************************************************** When you’re interested
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