BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Punishments seem to go hand in hand with BDSM practitioners, however, there is some debate among Dominants as to whether this is entirely necessary. After all, if you have trained your sub well, it would seem that punishments should never be necessary. Punishments and pain seem to be the first thing people think about when training a slave to be good, rather than reinforcing good […]
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You know the stories about marriages that go bad, the spark is lost, the passion has simmered, etc. But that doesn’t happen in BDSM relationships, does it? In any relationship, there are times when your desire waxes and wanes. However, if you’re beginning to feel that your desire for your Master is absent more than it is present, it’s time to start reconsidering your relationship
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Chances are high that at some point of slave training, you will get sick. And when you’re sick, you might not have the ability to call ‘off’ from your slave duties. In order to make sure you are still being a good slave and doing what your Dom/me wants you to do, here are some ways to handle the inevitable scene where you’re the victim
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I hope everybody gets to enjoy their Valentine’s Day in whatever kinky manner they enjoy. Valentine’s Day is all about showing and sharing your love, so don’t forget to take some time out of your busy schedule to do just that. It’s also a time for you to express your love for your partner in a way that feels natural and enjoyable for the both
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Before an actor goes onto a movie set or onto the stage, they will often spend weeks and months working on memorizing their lines and doing run throughs. This helps the actor be ready to perform perfectly for the audience and it will help to create a seamless performance. So, some BDSM couples begin to think that they need to practice ahead of time in
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Many people, whether they are Dominant or submissive always want to try anal sex as one of their first experiences when delving into kink. For most people their first encounter to anal sex is not an overly fond memory. This is because the anus is a very delicate and extremely sensitive area, any wrong move can cause pain or harm to the submissive. While many
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BDSM Question Corner: “I have lost my Master’s trust from past indiscretions. How might I work on gaining it back as my Master is trying very hard to trust me but just can’t? Is there something I can do to foster His trust? I totally regret my mistakes and just want to be trusted again.” Anonymous Master Bishop’s Thoughts Trust is a tricky thing in
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When you’ve been working with a slave for a long time, they might begin to think they can get away with anything. And if you let them get away with being lazy, then it’s really your fault. Thankfully, there are many ways you can begin to get your slave back on track and working hard for their Master/Mistress. After all, you will want to have
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It’s that time of year when everyone begins to make promises they know they’ll never keep. But it doesn’t have to be the case for you. When you have BDSM resolutions, you might not want to wait to get started. If you’re interested in making your BDSM relationship stronger or you just want to get started, here are three resolutions you may want to keep
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Pain can be a good thing, as so many BDSM folks already know. Once the pain begins, the endorphins rush into the bloodstream – of both the one inflicting pain and the one receiving it. But when you’re on the business end of the whip, you might want to learn some ways to better prepare your body and your mind for the pain you want
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