BDSM Resolutions for 2011

It’s that time of year when everyone begins to make promises they know they’ll never keep. But it doesn’t have to be the case for you. When you have BDSM resolutions, you might not want to wait to get started. If you’re interested in making your BDSM relationship stronger or you just want to get started, here are three resolutions you may want to keep in mind.

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Try Something New
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Of course, if you’ve never tried BDSM before, then everything you try will be new. But even if you’re experienced, there’s always something new that you can try out.

New sex toys: Yes, you can never have too many toys to taunt a slave with. Try to make this a year when you buy one new toy a month or every couple of months in order to keep things interesting. And don’t tell the slave either. See how surprised they are.

New bondage techniques: When you get good at tying a slave up, this is a good thing, but it also means that you will begin to get stale. You need to find new ways of stringing up a slave if you want to make sure they can’t wiggle out or guess your next move. Learn Rope Bondage Techniques

New commands: New commands for a slave will help to keep their mind sharp. While you might not want to change the ones they already know, it never hurts to add a few more.

New settings: Try out your BDSM in a new setting, maybe even a club that’s friendly about BDSM. Or you might want to change up the bedroom so it’s more sexy-time friendly.

When you try something new, you will feel a new energy in your relationship – and that’s going to translate into hotter times and better scenes.

If you’re new to BDSM, take some time to read as many resources as you can get your hands on. This will help you to learn more about what to do, what not to do, and how to make sure your partner is happy. While your BDSM practice may not be perfect, the more you can find out now, the more mistakes you can avoid later.

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Switch Things Up
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If you’re the Master and they’re the slave, you might want to choose a night or two when you switch things up. This will help to see if you want to do this more often and it will, at least, show you what the other person has to do in order to make an effective scene. Though this might not be something you do ever again, it never hurts to try to switch once in a while. It will give you both a new perspective. Plan one day when you switch roles to see what happens. You may be surprised.

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Review Your Contract
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When you have a BDSM contract in place, now is a good time to review it to see if it’s working for you. Go through the contract, line by line, to make sure nothing needs to be changed. Discuss what might need to be changed and decide whether you want to make the changes or try out the changes before you make them permanent. The contract you have should be reviewed regularly – and what better time than now?

When you’re making your BDSM resolutions, you will want to see what your partner thinks too – don’t just make resolutions for them. This is an opportunity for you to both get more from your relationship and all of the fun that it brings. What resolutions do you want to make this year?

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