One of the biggest and hardest lessons for anybody to learn in life is patience. Many submissives struggle with patience when it comes to their training and when it comes with themselves. So many want to know everything there is instantly and then become frustrated with themselves when they make mistakes. A very important skill for a submissive to follow is not being so hard […]
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Thank you for sending the information to me. But I am more dom than sub, while my partner is mainly a class A personality it’s difficult. Could you share some tips on how to get my partner (female) to submit? She wants to but does not play sub very well. Master Bishop’s Opinion When you’re already in a relationship with someone, and one person
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At the BDSM Training Academy this house rule applies to both Dominants and submissives. Submissives Submissives must be grateful that they are able to live the life that they chosen. The keyword being that they chose this life and therefore they must be grateful they are able to live those dreams, as many submissives never get to realize their desire, let alone be able
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When most subs think of submission, their minds tend to run wild with ideas of sexual service. A firm hand grabbing a full head of hair, causing a sub to go weak in the knees. Being eye to eye with their Dominant’s most precious appendage, the strongest urge to please their Dominant becomes the only thought in a sub’s mind. Sexual service in submission is
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Sometimes, your slave needs to more restriction, put in their place even more than you have done so already. But what is the best way to keep a slave from having the choice of being able to move around without bondage be limiting on the time a slave can be within it? A cage can be a great investment for a Mistress/Master who just wants
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When submitting to a Dominant, many new submissives find that their mind is continuously racing and they find it hard to focus on their Dominant. This can create feelings of inadequacy and despair as a new sub can begin to feel like they are doing something wrong or that they are not good enough to be submissive to their Dominant. You must understand that most
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Whether you are Dominant or submissive, the safety or you and your partner should be one of your biggest concern, if not the biggest. Making sure everything is consensual in your BDSM practices is just as important as safety, so let U/us not forget that. However, for this journal I wanted to focus on safety as I feel many people tend to become overwhelmed when
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Question: What if trust is broken by the Master? How do you regain that broken trust? anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinions The Master in a D/s relationship has an important job. They are tasked with the training and the care for their submissive. This role requires they be specific, clear, and consistent. It also requires that any agreements in place be followed exactly, so the
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When you’re a Dominant, you’ll be the one who is going to tell the submissive what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. However those parts of your relationship might seem clearer than other parts. While the submissive might think they simply have to follow your orders, they need to do more for you than they may have expected at first.
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Unfortunately my Dom has ignored me for about a month, all the time saying nothing was wrong but when I confronted him he kind of dismissed me and doesn’t want to continue as he prefers to have several pets not just me, which is not what he said when we first met, leaving me upset and hurt. It`s bad enough dealing with this sort of
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