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Preparing myself For Master

Preparing myself for Master is like preparing a special meal. The time and attention taken is as focused and planned as a 5 course meal.  Allow me to share the steps i take to prepare myself for Master. The Recipe  Step one:  Choose the mood or theme for the meal i believe a special meal should have a theme.  Usually the theme is centered on […]

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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting especially when W/we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or

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Sub Question: What If I Can’t Provide What My Dom/me Wants?

I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide? Sincerely, LJ ============================ Mistress Brianne’s Opinion

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Dom/sub Journal: What Is Your Purpose

A slave waiting patiently but feeling blind to their true purpose It is time to see W/we all need to feel like W/we have purpose in O/our lives.  A person who does not have any sense of purpose can suffer from feelings of depression, stress, and anxiety.  Their days overwhelm them despite much of the time they feel like they have nothing to do.  They

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Learning to Serve with your Heart — “Times i feel most in service”

The times when I feel most in service— Are not when i am following the rules, being obedient, or learning a new task or mastering a new protocol. Although absolutely vital to my submission and service and growth these are not the times i feel most in service. The times when i feel most in service  —Are when i can take a stress from Master without

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Vulnerability and Dependence In BDSM Relationships

In every slave training experience there comes a time when the questions of vulnerability and dependence will need to be discussed. Slave training is not realistic on a 24/7 basis, so focusing on the way a slave feels when the Dominant is something that needs to be considered. Most people aren’t quite sure how to define the idea of vulnerability and dependence. For example, many

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Becoming A Pet In BDSM

Those that want to explore the dominance and submission roles of BDSM might find that the Master/Mistress and slave roles just don’t appeal to them. Instead, they want to have a sense of giving over power, but in a less authoritarian way. If this sounds like something that might appeal to you, it can help for you to think about how you might be a

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Dom/sub Journal: Lead Or Follow?

Lead or Follow?  Dominant or submissive?  For many people this seems like such a silly question. If you are interested in BDSM then obviously you must know what you prefer.  However, this is one of the most complex questions within BDSM.  You must truly know yourself and your desires to understand your answer to this question.  Many people will say they are Dominant for years,

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Vet Office Roleplay Scene

When you’re ready to take your BDSM playtime to a new level, it’s time to change the scenery. Heading into the vet office allows you a lot of different options for a Master or Mistress and their slave, allowing the dominant to be in complete control of the ‘animal’ that is brought in for help. You can create a dark and naughty scene, or you

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