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Why I Love The St. Andrew’s Cross

If you can’t tell, I love the St. Andrews Cross. he cross offers the potential for so much play. Bondage and restraint, Pain and impact play, Sensation and surprise…Whatever you desire the St. Andrew’s Cross is my favorite piece of dungeon furniture to play on.

The wood was cool against my cheek, flush with anticipation of what was to come and the heat of the first strike across my bottom. With a blindfold stealing my vision, plummeting me into darkness, I could only wait, knowing that the next sensation could be almost anything — the sharp smack of a paddle, the searing pain of the cane, or a sensual caress down my naked back.

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Impact Play is More Than Spanking

While spanking is not required in BDSM nor does everyone love to engage in spanking, it is a popular kinky activity. Whether you love the control, the pain, or the intimacy of spanking, it’s worth exploring other avenues. Even if you don’t engage in anything other than your favorite bare-handed spanking, you may pick up some new tricks in the process.

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Good D/s Relationships Require Teamwork

Imagine your most erotic or deepest fantasy of Dominance and submission (D/s). What does it look like? How much control does the Dominant have over their submissive? What does the submissive allow or accept? Are the scenarios extremely rough or more playful? Are limits and boundaries stretched to the edge or is all play safe within your limits?

For many kinksters, the picture they have in their mind of D/s is often the most erotic and extreme version of a power exchange. But the question is can it be like this?

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Teamwork In Dominant Submissive Relationships

My Alpha Submission

Upon entering my world of  submission, I thought I knew what I wanted and needed. The excitement of the BDSM scene and all the future possibilities and opportunities that lay before me. I thought I knew everything I needed to know about being a submissive, and what that role meant to me. When I first stepped into trying to be submissive this what I thought

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Why Some Alphas Desire Submission

The one thing that tends to confuse most people about BDSM and Dominant/submissive relationships is the dynamic of the submissive alpha. I’m sure you know the one I am talking about, the individual who is a complete Dominating alpha in their entire life and yet has an enormous need to submit in their kinky life. So what is an alpha? Many would agree that an

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Why Would An Alpha Want To Be Submissive

I Have Top Energy But I’m Still a Submissive

No matter where you identify on the spectrum of Dominance and submissive (D/s), few people are all one or the other — even when being one or the other is part of your identity. In relationships and under the right circumstances, I’m fully a submissive. My natural inclination is to submit, yield, and do what I’m asked or told by a dominant partner. But there

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My Intro To Bondage & The Mistakes Learned

When it comes to BDSM and our personal kinky journey we all start in the same place. The one with less experience than everyone else, the person who wants and craves everything but does not know anyone yet to fulfill those desires. I noticed I loved rope early on when I first witnessed someone being tied up in person. Its ok to look at images

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The Power Of Mummification Within BDSM

With each step deeper into your desires, new experiences can be found that will heighten the senses, ignite the body and electrify the mind. While bondage is a common practice for many in the lifestyle, it is a truly diverse fetish and contains many different niches within it. One intensely consuming area of bondage that has left many people begging for more is mummification. However,

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We Are Looking For Kinky Writers

Have You Ever Wanted To Be Paid To Do What You Love W/we are currently looking for writers with a passion for BDSM and all things Kinky. W/we would love to have someone like you, who has experience within BDSM and a passion for sharing their knowledge. W/we would love to help share and promote those who have a desire to share their knowledge and

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