BDSM Limits The concept of limits in BDSM stems from the concept of placing things “off limits,” whereby individuals would set limits on specific activities and the limitations of activities with particular participants based on emotional and physical tolerances. Sharing one’s limits or negotiating with new people you are interested in playing with is essential before any play should ever begin. So when you start […]
Mummification, or total enclosure, is a type of bondage in which the submissive person is completely or partially wrapped in some type of material. While completely encased (cocooned) the individual will become completely immobilized and totally vulnerable to the Dominant. While Bondage restraints can be anything from rope, tape, cuffs, scarves, chain, – basically, anything you can use to restrain someone. In comparison with mummification,
Negotiating In BDSM As with any successful relationship, you need to understand the expectations of everyone involved. This is especially important in the case of a relationship that will include the giving up of control of one to the other – negotiating what each individual wants and doesn’t want must be done first before jumping into this sort of arrangement. But Why Negotiate? Just winging
Protocols Protocols are sets of rules of conduct and/or a code of behavior that have been established for a Dominant/submissive relationship. By enforcing these rules, a Dominant can help a submissive to remember their position in the relationship and support the submissive’s needs and desires to be controlled. Again, just like rituals each Dominant/submissive relationship will have different protocols, which protocols you choose to incorporate
Stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink RACK is an ethical philosophy that serves as an alternative to SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual). Critics of SSC argue that the term is too vague to be of meaningful use for our purposes in BDSM, pointing out that very little of what we do in the lifestyle is actually ‘safe’ or entirely without risk. In truth, we can only operate
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Rituals Rituals are a series of actions or behaviors that are performed repeatedly by a submissive. Rituals have been used throughout history and in modern psychology to reduce anxiety, increase confidence, and produce a sense of gratitude and respect. Rituals are meant to make a submissive intentionally slow down and reconnect with their self and the magic that can be experienced in their chosen life.
Role-Play Role playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of any sexual relationship, but even more so in a BDSM partnership. When you add the element of role playing, you can further create a sense of authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to do this and bad ways to do this. Here is what you need
Safety Call There will be times when a slave is gagged or tied into a position where they may not be able to talk. Or the slave might begin to have a problem with their breathing and be unable to call out their safeword for help – what happens then? If you’re doing any form of bondage or scene that involves these possibilities, you need
Safeword What most people recognize about safety is that you need to always be able to communicate, even when you’re in the midst of a heavy scene, filled with role playing, humiliation or playing on the edge of one’s limits. This is where the role of a safeword can come into play. Generally speaking, there are a few types of safewords that can be used
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