BDSM Encyclopedia


An enema is the simple task of putting water up into the anus to clean out any remaining fecal matter in the bowel. Water is pushed up into the rectum and then as it mixes with the matter that is present, your body then flushes it out into the toilet for disposal. When people have severe problems with constipation, an enema might be administered to help relieve the discomfort and eliminate the blockage. While a medical solution to begin with for many people the act of the enema is a truly arousing and intoxicating fetish.

Golden Shower

Gold Shower A “Golden Shower” – refers to the act of being peed upon or peeing upon someone. It is a form of domination BDSM play that is mostly harmless albeit a little messy It is a type of Urophilia which is the sexual arousal and/or pleasure from the thought, sight, feel and/or smell of …

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House Rules

A set of rules established for the Dominant and submissive that must be honored and obeyed at all times. Either a Dominant will have created these rules and teach a new submissive how to follow them to establish the kind of Dom/sub relationship they desire.  Or both the Dominant and submissive will work together to …

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Euphoric BDSM Mummification


Mummification, or total enclosure, is a type of bondage in which the submissive person is completely or partially wrapped in some type of material. While completely encased (cocooned) the individual will become completely immobilized and totally vulnerable to the Dominant. While Bondage restraints can be anything from rope, tape, cuffs, scarves, chain, – basically, anything …

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Negotiating In BDSM As with any successful relationship, you need to understand the expectations of everyone involved. This is especially important in the case of a relationship that will include the giving up of control of one to the other – negotiating what each individual wants and doesn’t want must be done first before jumping …

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BDSM Protocols To Empower You


Protocols Protocols are sets of rules of conduct and/or a code of behavior that have been established for a Dominant/submissive relationship. By enforcing these rules, a Dominant can help a submissive to remember their position in the relationship and support the submissive’s needs and desires to be controlled. Again, just like rituals each Dominant/submissive relationship …

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Stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink RACK is an ethical philosophy that serves as an alternative to SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual). Critics of SSC argue that the term is too vague to be of meaningful use for our purposes in BDSM, pointing out that very little of what we do in the lifestyle is actually ‘safe’ …

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Submissive Rituals in BDSM


Rituals Rituals are a series of actions or behaviors that are performed repeatedly by a submissive. Rituals have been used throughout history and in modern psychology to reduce anxiety, increase confidence, and produce a sense of gratitude and respect. Rituals are meant to make a submissive intentionally slow down and reconnect with their self and …

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