One of the biggest dilemmas in BDSM is when bottoms top when they’re bottoming. Confused yet? This is a situation in which those who are submissive tell their Dominants what a sub wants a Dom/me to do. While it does seem to go against the idea of giving up control to someone else, there are times when this practice is appropriate – and that’s where […]
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While there might be times when you want to make your slave do all of the naughty things you want them to do – all within fifteen minutes – there are other times when you might be more interested in having a longer scene. But with a longer scene comes more problems and often more concerns for you as the Master and for your slave.
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Let’s face it – whether we want to admit it or not, we all make mistakes – in and out of the dungeon. And while it might seem better to simply avoid mistakes in the first place, it also seems like it would be a good idea to learn from the mistakes you do make. Whether you’re a Dominant or a submissive, you can learn
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Question: He is one of those subs who likes to test his boundaries and either talk back or be disobedient intentionally to receive punishment. I usually resort to spanking. But I don’t think this is entirely successful because I know this is what he wants. However he does respond better to verbal degradation and does actually obey after some whipping when it becomes too much.
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While no one knows the exact origins of the corset, some evidence has shown simple corsets were being wore in Ancient Greece. The use of corsets became more evident around the 16th century but did not become popular and a common article of clothing until the early to mid 1800’s. It’s purpose was to cinch a waist to help form the extremely small waist desired
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One of the basic BDSM scenes that you can do is to keep a slave from knowing what is happening. This allows the sensations to be more concentrated and it can cause the slave to be more in tune with the practices they are trying to learn. However, sensory stimulation is another good practice that allows and encourages a slave to focus on their actions
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Quite a few people still believe that women’s bodies are these gigantic mysteries with some complex code needed to unlock the ever-elusive Orgasm. The misconception that women are unable to be easily aroused is false.
Women tend to be more easily stimulated by more cerebral things – better put, women’s minds need to be turned on first before their bodies will follow. So, with this in mind, when it comes to a female submissive wanting to orgasm on command for their Master, you first must stimulate the mind to provide the body with the space it needs to let go and follow when instructed.
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The scene with wax is one that plays out in many BDSM movies and stories. The hot wax dripping on the skin seems like the perfect way to make a slave squeal with fright and pleasure. But while the movies make it seem so easy, the truth is that wax play can be dangerous if you don’t do it right. It’s a good idea to
When you have all of the regular sex toys in your bedroom, you might itch to try something new, something that makes your slave squirm and that makes your heart beat faster as soon as you pull it out. The anal hook is one of the sex toys that’s not only coveted by slaves, but also by Masters and Mistresses who want to show their
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Power – the power over someone else’s thoughts, patterns, choices, and actions – this is the gift of a slave to a Master or Mistress. And while there might be times when the Dom/me and slave have to negotiate to decide what power means and how much to give, there are BDSM relationships in which the Dominant is able to have complete control over their
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