BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
The first time you ever play with someone might be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. As with anything new you must be cautious and make your safety the utmost importance. Even if you know the other person, playing together for the first time means you need to be wary of what might happen and how it might happen. Here are a few do’s […]
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I was unable to focus the whole day in anticipation of this evening and what awaited me. My mind had been spinning as I stared longingly at the clock hoping that I could make time speed up. I had been dreaming of this for what seemed like my entire life and now the dream is about to become a reality. Finally, I looked up and
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Despite what many people in the vanilla world believe, the most important principle and practice of BDSM is founded in consent. Without consent there is no BDSM, Domination, submission, and/or sadomasochism, it is abuse. So it is vital that consent is received before ever taking part in any form of BDSM. Learn more about the difference between BDSM and Abuse With that said, before anybody
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I am a slave to an amazing Master. i am fortunate to be living my chosen life in service 24/7 and have been on this journey for 6 years. Thank you Master… Short History: O/our history began 25 years ago, as Husband and wife. Then 6 years ago my Husband became my Master and i became His slave. The journey has so far been one
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While being a submissive might be all that you’ve ever wanted in your bedroom life, or perhaps in your entire life, that doesn’t mean there aren’t complicated feelings. After all, much of society tells us that it’s many of our desires are wrong, that being submissive is weak, the ideas we have are sick and that you should always be ‘in charge’ of your own
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You deserve to be spoiled and now you can Especially when it’s something you really want Now with our new Anonymous Gift Registry, getting the kinky gifts you have always wanted has never been easier. Why spend your hard earned money In just a few steps, you could get all the kinky toys you have always wanted to be delivered right to your doorstep for
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As a Master or Mistress, your primary goal is to facilitate the growth of your slave. Training is a special agreement between two people (or more) that is based on domination and submission. While it can be exciting and fun to engage your sadism with another person, what is more important is nurturing and supporting their mental and physical well-being. You can’t ignore their feelings
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She used to struggle to pull herself out of bed for her old jobs, but since she started her new job, she came in early every day and begged to be allowed to stay late. But this was no ordinary office, and this was far from your typical job. While this job was not for everyone, it was what she had always desired and hoped
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The night started off like any other night with Master. The naked sub took her time in preparing a light dinner, making sure that all of the foods were cooked perfectly, and waited until her Master was seated before asking if she could pleasure him while he ate. “No,” he answered. “Not tonight, you need to eat and build your strength for what I have
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As a Dominant or Dominatrix, you have a special role in the development of your slave. You can utilize a variety of tools and training to encourage their full potential, and enable them to fully serve you and your needs. For some slaves, they require a certain sort of breaking down of their current state of mind. One way to inspire their feeling of being
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