BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Having the space to have BDSM fun is a bit of a luxury for most people. Not all of us can have fully equipped dungeons and basements, after all. With smaller spaces, like closets, you can still have a place to not only stash your BDSM gear, but also a slave that needs to learn a lesson. You can use even the smallest space to […]
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When you’re a slave, you might not realize just how much a scene can take out of you. While you might be floating away on an endorphin cloud, the truth is that your body is undergoing a lot of changes and it might not be something that will cause you pleasure for a long period of time. Instead, you might begin to feel awful in
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While breakups are never easy, they can become more complicated in a BDSM relationship. Because the relationship is based on one person trying to please another, a breakup can seem as though the slave has not done his or her job. Though this might be a part of the reason, usually breakups come from two people growing apart. Whatever the reason, there are better ways
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If you’re new to the idea of having a sub, then you might not know where to begin. You’ve seen how BDSM relationships play out in movies and in books, but when it comes to real life settings, that’s when things get tricky. You can’t instantly train a sub. Training begins with a series of steps to create trust between you and your slave, a
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Domme Question: I am new and I love your emails on how to. My friend has introduced me to BDSM and he is the submissive one. This really gets me going. I get hot just thinking about it. My prob. with being the Dome is that I am a pleaser and I am way too gentle. I like to relax him before I take it
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Many people assume that just because someone is into BDSM that their whole lives most revolve around it 24/7. Well I’m sorry to burst the illusion for some people, but even people who live a 24/7 lifestyle still have hobbies, work, family and even romance outside of BDSM. That’s right, many Dom/me will put down their favorite flogger and let go of their sub’s leash
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Your role as a slave might change all the time. One day you might be in a scene where you need to move around a lot in order to please your Master/Mistress and the next day you might be strung up in bondage and told not to move a muscle. Simple examples, sure, but these do demonstrate the different needs and goals in being a
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Your slave wants your attention and they’re willing to do everything they can in order to ensure you’re always looking at them and paying attention to them. And while you often give them attention during training, a slave will begin to realize that you’re always going to give them attention so long as they are acting the way you want them to to while you
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If you’re looking for a way that will instantly cause a slave to be under your control, it’s time to look into hoods. While you might think the tools you already have in your dungeon are just what you need to be the best Master or Mistress, you can always do more and you can always do better. With a hood, you can instantly show
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Whether you’re a new submissive for your Master/Mistress, or you’ve been in your BDSM relationship for a while, everyone can improve. If you’ve been wondering how you can better serve your Master/Mistress, you’re already on the right track. As a slave, you need to always think about how you can do more and how you can be more in your Dominant’s eyes. With these New
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