BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
When the gray in your hair begins to overtake your natural color, you might begin to look over the things you’re doing in your life to see if changes need to be made. If you’re into BDSM, you might wonder if you need to hang up your whip and your gag and go back to vanilla sex. After all, your body isn’t as limber as […]
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Just because the economy is sinking doesn’t mean you need to give up your dream of having a dungeon in your house. BDSM shouldn’t have to suffer just because money might be tight, after all. And the good news is that there are many ways for you to either start or add to your personal BDSM lair when you’re under budget constraints. All you need
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When you know you’re going to be with your Master or Mistress, it can be difficult to concentrate on anything else. But as their slave, you need to make sure their experience is as enjoyable for them as it is for you. Cleanliness is next to godliness, at least, that’s what you’ve heard. Your body should be in the best shape possible for each session
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While some people like to play with BDSM in order to add a little spice to their bedroom activities, others take things more seriously. You might be one of those people who want to set up a strong power relationship between yourself and your slave – but how do you get started? When you’re serious about building a Master-slave relationship, you need to start off
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A Mistress’ work is never done, it seems. With all of the bad things your slave is doing, you might feel as though your job is becoming harder than their job. At the same time, you might feel as though you need to be harder on your slave than ever before, but the look in their eyes doesn’t seem to be as bright as it
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Watch The Sub Crawl Many BDSM relationships focus on the power exchange between theDominant partner and the submissive partner. And what better wayto showcase this power structure than with collar and leash play? One of the problems you might be having with this kind of play isthat it seems like something that has become cliche and silly.But the idea of one person possessing someone else
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Since Valentine’s day is coming I felt like helping everybodyexperience more love in their lives. Love with more of a kinkytwist I mean. Is that not what W/we are all searching for in someway or another to feel loved and appreciated with some kinkadded in to make you feel alive? I have some good news: * W/we have just added 5 brand new videos to
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Humiliation is a favored way to begin to create the idea of controlin a Master and slave relationship, but that doesn’t mean itdoesn’t have its own specific ways to work well – and to not workwell for a relationship. By learning the techniques of humiliationas well as when to use it, you can use this as an effective slavetraining tool. The trick with humiliation is
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If you ask ten different slaves what subspace is, chances are good that you will get ten different answers. And that’s because subspace is truly an individual experience that can be created through slave training, but is hard to define. One of the main concerns with subspace is that because the definition is so vague, it’s hard to tell when and if it actually occurs.
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Valentine’s Day is coming upon U/us. Whether you’re a romantic or a kinkster at heart this is a day of passion, pleasure and maybe even a little pain…if you’re lucky. If you’re looking for something nice to show your partner you care or just looking for something to show them you’re ready to heat things up in your play. Lady Scandalous has found that there
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