If you are looking for have a formal submissive service dinner, then you should have a look at the formal instructions sub-kathleen wrote out for submissives who were looking to serve at her latest Service Etiquette Dinner. Putting on an evening like this takes a lot of preparation, hard work and attention to detail. Every submissive must be willing to pull their fair share of […]
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Do you dare to be your true self? Do you dare to celebrate your desires? Despite society accepting many different sexual lifestyles, BDSM is still considered an offensive and deplorable lifestyle choice. This does not mean you should go out and reveal your desires to the public, as this can have serious consequences with your professional career, family and friends. Each individual must make that
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In a day and age when acceptance of many different lifestyle choices has grown, BDSM is still looked down upon. Jobs can be lost, individuals can be shunned by coworkers, even friends and family members can disappear once they find out that your interests have strayed into BDSM. This is why one of the worst things you can do is publicly out someone in the
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Whether you’re in a BDSM relationship now or you simply want to get out and meet more of the BDSM community, there are plenty of events which can introduce you to others who share your same interests. By getting out into the community, you can not only meet other slaves and Masters and Mistresses, but you can also begin to learn more about what you
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One of the most important characteristics for any Dominant or submissive to have is patience. The dictionary definition of patience is the ability to accept and/or tolerate trouble or suffering without becoming angry. While patience is crucial in many aspects of life it is even more important within submissive training. Losing your temper or becoming angry because things are not going the way you want
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Preparing myself for Master is like preparing a special meal. The time and attention taken is as focused and planned as a 5 course meal. Allow me to share the steps i take to prepare myself for Master. The Recipe Step one: Choose the mood or theme for the meal i believe a special meal should have a theme. Usually the theme is centered on
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I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting especially when W/we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or
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I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide? Sincerely, LJ ============================ Mistress Brianne’s Opinion
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A slave waiting patiently but feeling blind to their true purpose It is time to see W/we all need to feel like W/we have purpose in O/our lives. A person who does not have any sense of purpose can suffer from feelings of depression, stress, and anxiety. Their days overwhelm them despite much of the time they feel like they have nothing to do. They
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The times when I feel most in service— Are not when i am following the rules, being obedient, or learning a new task or mastering a new protocol. Although absolutely vital to my submission and service and growth these are not the times i feel most in service. The times when i feel most in service —Are when i can take a stress from Master without
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