When you want to be in control of another person, you might become a boss or a manager. But for some, this control extends into the bedroom, where they can be in control of another’s feelings, experiences, and their comfort. While some dominants don’t take the time to think about it, when you begin to understand your true motivations for being a Mistress or a […]
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A submissive is a person that willingly gives over control to a dominant, either in a relationship or within a specific playtime. But what drives a submissive to want to give up this control? There are many different motivations, almost as many as there are submissives in the world. Understanding why a submissive decides to take over their slave role allows not only the slave
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Being a slave is a tough job – and it should be. If you were already good at being a slave, you wouldn’t need a Master/Mistress to help you. As a slave, you have a number of responsibilities on your plate, all of which are important and should be done dutifully and gracefully. If you are an online slave for some or for part of
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The stereotypical dungeon is cold and absent of anything comfortable, but this doesn’t have to be the case. Instead, you can turn your dungeon into a sensual training ground, one in which you can enjoy being comfortable, as well as being challenged. All you need to do is to make a few simple adjustments and you will find that your room is just as tough
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What do I do when I feel neglected and instead of talking about it I let it build up until I have an emotional outburst and get released? 🙁 Or does it just mean I was neglected because I was unwanted…just like I felt like… Anonymous ========================================== Master Bishop’s Response
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Your BDSM life is something that you value, something that you believe in and something that you enjoy. But what happens when you’re also balancing the idea of a vanilla life? For some BDSM couples, it’s not just about the BDSM they enjoy, but they also want to have times of vanilla. And the question becomes: can you have both? *************************************************** Why Vanilla Might Still
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She closed her eyes and leaned against the cold hard wall, as she waited in heightened anticipation for the flogging she had begged her Master for. It had felt like months since her last flogging, though it had only been a few days. The memory of leather falls striking against her flesh was slowly fading. She knew that she needed a reminder of her Master’s
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A BDSM slave training collar for many people is a symbol of a Dominant and submissive relationship. When used and applied properly, a submissive training collar can help to strengthen a Dom/sub relationship. It helps to reinforce the roles within a Dom/sub relationship. The slave knows they are submissive once the collar is placed around their neck. The Dominant knows the submissive is living to
One of the most difficult things about this lifestyle, if not the most difficult is telling the person you care about or even love that you like BDSM. The reason why it can be so difficult is because you never know how the other person is going to react. Will they be excited by it, or will they be disgusted? Will they be supportive or
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As with many long term relationships things change and evolve and sometimes these changes are not for the better, but then there are times when the changes are over the top amazingly fulfilling. O/our journey into the BDSM lifestyle and our new 24/7 TPE (Total power exchange) relationship has brought a new dynamic to our sexual relationship that frankly i truly only felt was possible
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