I was sitting in front of My computer the other day and I was wondering what W/we could do at the academy that would help people to learn more about themselves and their desires within the Dom/sub lifestyle.
Then it hit Me, one of the best tools within BDSM training is for both the Dom and sub to keep a journal of their thoughts, feelings and their interpretation of the experiences that they have. By writing out things out, you make your feelings more concrete. By seeing your feelings physically written on paper, it helps to let you know how you feel. On top of that, you can always go back and review what you have written in the past. This allows you to reread past experiences so you can remind yourself of what you have learned but also to show you how you have grown and changed from these experiences.
Even better you can share your thoughts and feelings in the comments below and see how different people think about things differently. This could help to reinforce your views and you might even learn something from somebody else who shares their thoughts.
Today’s topic of discussion is:
Do you feel embarrassed about the feelings you have in regards to your kinks? If so, what feelings embarrass you and why?
Its important to realize how you feel and know that you will not be able to move forward in life and in the lifestyle until you confront those negative emotions. Lets start the discussion below and I look forward to hearing from everybody.