BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
No matter where you identify on the spectrum of Dominance and submissive (D/s), few people are all one or the other — even when being one or the other is part of your identity. In relationships and under the right circumstances, I’m fully a submissive. My natural inclination is to submit, yield, and do what I’m asked or told by a dominant partner. But there […]
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When it comes to BDSM and our personal kinky journey we all start in the same place. The one with less experience than everyone else, the person who wants and craves everything but does not know anyone yet to fulfill those desires. I noticed I loved rope early on when I first witnessed someone being tied up in person. Its ok to look at images
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Are you having a hard time telling that special kinky person in your life how much you desire them on Valentine’s Day? Tired of the same old sweet sentiments that just don’t ring true for how your inner kinkster really feels. W/we thought W/we might try and help you express yourself this valentine’s day, so you can spend the rest of the day on more
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With each step deeper into your desires, new experiences can be found that will heighten the senses, ignite the body and electrify the mind. While bondage is a common practice for many in the lifestyle, it is a truly diverse fetish and contains many different niches within it. One intensely consuming area of bondage that has left many people begging for more is mummification. However,
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Have You Ever Wanted To Be Paid To Do What You Love W/we are currently looking for writers with a passion for BDSM and all things Kinky. W/we would love to have someone like you, who has experience within BDSM and a passion for sharing their knowledge. W/we would love to help share and promote those who have a desire to share their knowledge and
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One thing that is inevitable in life is time continues to tick away. However, on every 365th day of the year, a new year is born and for many a fresh start to beginning something new. But the choice must be made by you, do you continue to do the same old thing you have done every other year. Or do you choose to do
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Another year has come and passed. Many people enjoy to celebrate for the holiday season and each way is as unique as the individual. W/we kinky people are no different except for how W/we may choose to celebrate the festive season. So the question is what do you do to celebrate your kinky desires within the seasonal festivities? What is your favorite way to decorate
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A slave who is dedicated to being a slave to a particular Master or Mistress might want to show their intention with something more permanent than a paper contract. Or a slave who is simply dedicated to being a slave for life might want to create a permanent marking on themselves to help remind them of their purpose and their goal in life. Tattoos can
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Kinksgiving The time of year to be thankful and grateful. To appreciate everything in your life.W/we wanted to show O/our appreciation to all the amazingly beautiful kinksters who have followed and supported U/us for all these years. Please celebrate all your kinky desires with a special discount so you can enjoy more for less. Just enter the coupon code “kinksgiving18” at checkout at the bdsmtoyshop.com
Submissive Question I need help, i am in a long distance D/s relationship with my Mistress. I try to serve her obediently but my commitment fades. I only stay with my tasks for a short time and then stop doing it and forget about it. What can i do to reinforce my commitment and willpower to follow through all that my Mistress wants me to
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