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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Should a Slave Be Afraid?
In the BDSM relationship, adrenaline seems to be as valuable a tool as any whip or chain. When a slave is afraid, they are going to be more sensitive and they are also more likely to make mistakes, helping the Master or Mistress have some behaviors to train, while also helping to excite the Master or the Mistress who is turned on by the need
The New BDSM Toy Shop
After years of searching and testing BDSM gear, W/we are proud to present the official BDSM Training Academy Toy Shop. This is the first Toy Shop designed and created solely for the Dominant and submissive lifestyle. Its frustrating trying to find quality BDSM gear. Nobody understands that more then W/we do. W/we have spent more then 8 years and tons of money, testing and trying
Creating High Intensity BDSM Scenes
When you’re ready to create a scene, whether as a Master or Mistress, the intensity is something you need to keep in mind. Scenes aren’t just about testing the mettle of a slave, but they are about finding out how well they can keep up with you and with the energy of the scene. In addition, as a Master or Mistress, you’re the one in
Hand Worship
Your hands are an erogenous zone, if you didn’t already know. These parts of your body are filled with nerve endings, which makes sense considering all they’re tasked to do during the day. Your hands are the way that you perceive the world and they can also be a source of erotic pleasure. If you’re looking to create a new scene in your BDSM relationship,
Shaving Your Partner Before a Scene
If you want to bring your partner into a state of tension, even before a scene begins, you might want to look at the value of shaving right before you begin. Not only is this a hot way to begin a scene, but it can also create anticipation that will make for intense orgasms and BDSM play. Nothing says control like telling your partner that
Should You Try to Be A Submissive Sometimes?
Mistresses have to do a lot to control their slaves. Not only do they have to plan out lessons and training sessions, but they also have to maintain razor sharp focus as the scene progresses. As a result, some Mistresses can begin to feel burnt out and they can begin to feel exhausted by their slaves. Some Mistresses decide that in order to keep their
Handling Body Issues While Being A Submissive
No matter how much your Master seems to care for you, it can be difficult to get over your body issues. So many women have to deal with this problem in their lives, but when you’re trying to impress your Master, it can become even more magnified. You might be afraid that any small flaw in your body will upset your Master and make him
Release Of The 6th Edition BDSM Slave Training Guide
As always W/we at the BDSM Training Academy are constantly looking to improve upon everything that W/we do. W/we are strong believers in the fact that nothing is ever perfect (no matter how hard W/we try) and that there will always be more to learn. This is why W/we continue to add more and more information to the BDSM Slave Training Guide, because W/we believe
Prepare Your Nipples for Breast Scenes
If your Master is interested in making your breasts a part of every scene you do together, you need to make sure that you are prepared. While you might not be able to prepare for everything in the bedroom, a slave’s job is to be as graceful as possible and screaming like a banshee does not count. You can do a few things to prepare
Holding Yourself Off For Your Mistress
Your Mistress is in control of your penis – whether you like it or not. And you know you like it, so don’t complain too much. But as your training as a slave progresses, you will want to make sure you are learning how to control your erections whenever your Mistress wants you to control them, which may be quite often. Though the sight of
Pushing Boundaries with Your Sub
A Dominant/slave relationship isn’t something that can be described as static. While your partner may not change for years at a time, that doesn’t mean the level of your relationship has to stay the same. In fact, as you and your slave work together, it’s a good idea to push each other’s boundaries to see just how deep you can take the relationship and the
How To Become A Mistress
Dominatrix Question I am in a relationship with a man who is very much into S & M. He is always looking at Mistresses via the web and has been trained previously. I have trained him occasionally however usually after alcohol. He loves Mistresses with big breast which I have the complete opposite and I would like to know a few tips on how I
