BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
While it might not seem to be the usual story, some dominants aren’t interested in punishing their submissives. They might have to take on this task during the training, but what they’re more interested in is creating true subservience in their slaves. These dominants want to have a slave that simply wants to do what they are told because that is a way to please […]
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As a slave, there are a lot of things that you can be feeling at any given time – pain, pressure, and fear, as well as joy, ecstasy, and sweet submission. But during an intense scene, it can be difficult to decide what you are feeling. You might be concerned that you are being hurt in a way that is not acceptable to you or
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When you first think of gags, you probably get turned on. But after that, you want to think about the different kinds of gags there are and how they can be used in different scenes. While ball gags are ball gags, it’s the way they’re designed that can make a slave moan, albeit muffled.
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I was sitting in front of My computer the other day and I was wondering what W/we could do at the academy that would help people to learn more about themselves and their desires within the Dom/sub lifestyle. Then it hit Me, one of the best tools within BDSM training is for both the Dom and sub to keep a journal of their thoughts, feelings
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I’m sure you wrote out your letter to Santa explaining how nice you had been throughout the year. Of course leaving out all the naughty activities you enjoy partaking in. Sadly, Santa Claus is much harder to fool then you can imagine. This could be the only reason why you didn’t get what you really wanted for the holidays. Well as much as I would
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If you’ve been in a BDSM relationship for any period of time, you will notice that some scenes are better than others. Even though you might have everything planned out, this doesn’t mean that you’re going to have it go the way you’ve planned. And in some cases, you might have a very horrible scene, one in which one or both partners have troubles or
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Once again it is that time of year where many people put down their floggers and leave the dungeon to spend some quality time with their vanilla friends and family. A time to show those closest to U/us that W/we love them. With 364 days to enjoy the dungeon, I guess W/we can always focus on O/our friends and family for the holidays. So enjoy
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Often, the ‘daddy’ is someone who is in charge of the relationship. While some might not take well to this term, preferring ‘Master’ instead, the softer name has other connotations that might help to create a connection between the partners in a BDSM relationship. The idea of one person being the protector of the other person, the keeper of their safety is something that can
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Service – it’s what your slave should be doing for you every moment that you ask. While you might not be able to think of new things for them to do all the time, it’s a good idea to train your slave in how to serve his Mistress, should the need arise. Whether they are a house slave or a traditional slave, you need to
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Do You Want To Know What Naughty Boys And Girls Really Want For Christmas? …Its More Then A Lump Of Coal Just because Santa only gives gifts to good girls and boys, does not mean you can’t reward your partner with something special for being extra naughty this past year. Here are just a few of My favorite BDSM toys for all
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