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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Keeping Proper Submissive Posture
No matter how long a scene might be, posture is everything to your Master. You need to make sure that you are graceful and poised, no matter what might be asked of you. In order to keep your posture proper, you need to learn a bit about how to hold yourself internally as well as externally. Though it might seem simple enough to stand up
The Mystery Box Scene
You need to have surprises in any relationship and a well-trained slave might feel you have nothing more to show them after you’ve been together for a while. That’s where the mystery box can come in handy. This scene will allow you to be in control of your slave, without having to tell them what’s happening, why it’s happening, or what might happen next. Make
My Boyfriend Wants Me To Dominate Him
Dear Mistress Sophia, My boyfriend has asked me to dominate. Your emails have been agreat help. I’m not a cruel person so I’m having a hard time.How do I lose my soft touch and become a Mistress? sincerely, V.W. Halifax ================================================================== Here is My response: While many women look soft and mysterious, many more women arelooking to get in touch with their dark and nasty
Polishing Your Master’s Boots
Just the Way He Likes It When your Master likes to have his boots nice and shiny, you need to learn the proper steps in order to make him smile. Boots are not just any other part of your Master’s wardrobe. These boots might be what you stare at for hours until he is convinced that you are worthy to look into his eyes. If
Choosing the Right Time to Collar Your Submissive
Your slave wants to be your slave. They want a sign that you are committing to them as much as they feel they are devoted to you. Collaring your slave has become a rite of passage in BDSM, and you might want to continue the tradition. But this process isn’t going to mean anything to a slave if they’re not truly ready to be a
Strap On Fun For Your Slave
A Mistress has to get new toys with which to train their slaves in order to be happy with their arrangement. Though bondage is fun and your slave might have cleaned your entire house from top to bottom, you need to push your slave even further if you want to learn just how far they will go for you. Enter the strap on. You’ve both
BDSM Pop
I have noticed that a few pop singers are starting to use BDSM images and fashion in their videos. The funny thing is I get the feeling that these pop stars are not really interested in the lifestyle. The sense I get is that perhaps if they wear some latex, brandish a whip and some rope, that they will become the next Madonna. I must
Hard Limits vs Soft Limits
BDSM is a power struggle for most couples that enjoy it. When you’re talking over what you want from your relationship, you might begin with a list of the things that you want to do together, as well as the things that you don’t want to do at all. This allows you to both understand the boundaries that you will and will not cross. However,
Can BDSM Be Non-Erotic
One of the reasons why many couples begin to test out BDSM in their relationship is to see if they can add some spark to their sex life. But that is not the reason why all people get involved in the BDSM lifestyle. Many times, an individual might want to try out BDSM to see if they can handle the power struggle. They might simply
Being the Best Slave in Public
While being a slave might be something you reserve for certain times in the bedroom, there will be times when your Mistress/Master wants to take you out in public (assuming you’ve been a good slave). And while it might not take the same shape as your slave sessions, you still need to be ready to prove your commitment to the pleasure and the pride of
Why Subs Need Random Tests
Every slave learns eventually, but when you’re not testing your slave as often as you should, they’re not going to hang onto a lot of the lessons. You need to make sure that your slave knows that you’re always watching them and that you’re always interested in seeing what you have taught them. Random tests are just the thing to make sure that your slave
BDSM Is Not A Cure
One thing I hear all the time from people in the lifestyle or who want to enter into the lifestyle is that BDSM is some sort of cure-all for the woes of their life. Yes, BDSM is fun and can be safe, but it’s not going to make you younger or happier. You may have a lovely time in the dungeon and you might even
