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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Spare the Rod, Spoil the Sub?
Punishments seem to go hand in hand with BDSM practitioners, however, there is some debate among Dominants as to whether this is entirely necessary. After all, if you have trained your sub well, it would seem that punishments should never be necessary. Punishments and pain seem to be the first thing people think about when training a slave to be good, rather than reinforcing good
What To Do When You Lose Desire for Your Master
You know the stories about marriages that go bad, the spark is lost, the passion has simmered, etc. But that doesn’t happen in BDSM relationships, does it? In any relationship, there are times when your desire waxes and wanes. However, if you’re beginning to feel that your desire for your Master is absent more than it is present, it’s time to start reconsidering your relationship
How to Be a Good Slave When You’re Sick
Chances are high that at some point of slave training, you will get sick. And when you’re sick, you might not have the ability to call ‘off’ from your slave duties. In order to make sure you are still being a good slave and doing what your Dom/me wants you to do, here are some ways to handle the inevitable scene where you’re the victim
A Happy BDSM Valentine’s Day
I hope everybody gets to enjoy their Valentine’s Day in whatever kinky manner they enjoy. Valentine’s Day is all about showing and sharing your love, so don’t forget to take some time out of your busy schedule to do just that. It’s also a time for you to express your love for your partner in a way that feels natural and enjoyable for the both
Practicing Before A Scene
Before an actor goes onto a movie set or onto the stage, they will often spend weeks and months working on memorizing their lines and doing run throughs. This helps the actor be ready to perform perfectly for the audience and it will help to create a seamless performance. So, some BDSM couples begin to think that they need to practice ahead of time in
New Anal Training Video
Many people, whether they are Dominant or submissive always want to try anal sex as one of their first experiences when delving into kink. For most people their first encounter to anal sex is not an overly fond memory. This is because the anus is a very delicate and extremely sensitive area, any wrong move can cause pain or harm to the submissive. While many
Submissive Female Question: When Trust Is Lost
BDSM Question Corner: “I have lost my Master’s trust from past indiscretions. How might I work on gaining it back as my Master is trying very hard to trust me but just can’t? Is there something I can do to foster His trust? I totally regret my mistakes and just want to be trusted again.” Anonymous Master Bishop’s Thoughts Trust is a tricky thing in
Make Your Submissive Work Harder
When you’ve been working with a slave for a long time, they might begin to think they can get away with anything. And if you let them get away with being lazy, then it’s really your fault. Thankfully, there are many ways you can begin to get your slave back on track and working hard for their Master/Mistress. After all, you will want to have
BDSM Resolutions for 2011
It’s that time of year when everyone begins to make promises they know they’ll never keep. But it doesn’t have to be the case for you. When you have BDSM resolutions, you might not want to wait to get started. If you’re interested in making your BDSM relationship stronger or you just want to get started, here are three resolutions you may want to keep
How to Build Up Pain Tolerance
Pain can be a good thing, as so many BDSM folks already know. Once the pain begins, the endorphins rush into the bloodstream – of both the one inflicting pain and the one receiving it. But when you’re on the business end of the whip, you might want to learn some ways to better prepare your body and your mind for the pain you want
Happy Holidays
W/we at the BDSM Training Academy would just like to wish everybody a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and all the best for the New Year. W/we hope you continue to live a safe, sane and consensual lifestyle, while you further your journey into discovering yourself. Sincerely, Master Bishop, Mistress Sophia, Mistress Brianne and The BDSM Training Academy Team Related Posts Merry Christmas From Kinky Claus
A Message Of Love
I am finding this letter hard to write, but I believe that it is an important message that everybody should hear. Within the last three months, a few friends of my family have committed suicide. While I did not know the people that committed suicide personally, I did know the families that have been effected by this awful tragedy. I have seen and felt the
