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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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How to Stay Silent Without a Gag
If you’re a good slave, you will do anything in your power to make sure that your Master/Mistress is happy with you. No matter how much you are tested in your training, you need to do as you are told, even if you think that you can not. If you’ve advanced far in your training, your Dom/me may not want to use gags anymore, preferring
When A Sub Doesn’t Tell You When Something Hurts
You have a slave who wants to impress you. It’s cute, isn’t it? They grin and bear it through all of your tortuous ideas, but that’s only a good thing up to a certain point. You see the blood on their skin and you notice that they have injuries that make certain positions difficult. And yet, they don’t say a thing. While you have to
Why Subs Should Bring Their Own Toys
A submissive often walks into the dungeon, gets into position, and then waits for whatever will happen to happen. They don’t worry about the toys that are being used or what they need to think about – the Master or Mistress will take care of the details. A sub must take their own health and safety into their own hands, to do this it’s best
How To Be A Good Sub When You Are Sick
Chances are high that at some point of slave training, you will become sick. And when you’re sick, you might not have the ability to call ‘off’ from your slave duties. In order to make sure you are still being a good slave and doing what your Master wants you to do, here are some ways to handle the inevitable scene where you’re the victim
Using Video in Your BDSM Scenes
Your slave has been doing all of the things they are supposed to do for you. They are acting appropriately, trying hard to please, and they have improved more than you thought they would. So how can you begin to push them even harder when they don’t have any more agreed upon limits to push? This is where a video camera might come in. Not
Office Role Play Scene
Sometimes, a little role playing can help to make a BDSM scene not only hotter than it might have been before, but also a bit more fun for everyone involved. It’s just fun to pretend you’re someone else and for the slave or the Master or Mistress, sometimes getting into a role can help to enhance the overall training experience. In the office scene, you
Creating BDSM Tension
When you’re having sex with another person, all of the right moves do not necessarily add up to a good time. This is especially the case with BDSM. If you already know what’s going to happen or you simply don’t feel like things are exciting, you’re going to have troubles enjoying your time with your partner. In order to make your sexual escapade a bit
Want More In Your Slave Training
i have a question to ask i have a master who i have known for two years and over these two years he has been training me very slowly as he works all the time this is fine as i know i have to be patient but things have stayed at the same stages of training for the past six months with me not progressing
New Slave? New Rules?
If you’re taking on a new slave, you might have a number of reasons for doing so. And even if you think the new slave is going to fulfill a purpose that the other did not, you need to consider your own training methods before you invite this slave into your life. While you might think that your own methods of slave training worked just
How to Serve Master at the End of His Long Day
Being a Master is hard work, but so might be the work he does outside of the dungeon. As the slave, it’s your duty to make sure your Master is always feeling worshiped and relaxed, even when his fatigue has nothing to do with your training. At the end of a long day, a Master wants to feel as though his slave is willing to
Essential Questions for a Slave Interview
The slave interview: a time when slave relationships are begun or ended just as quickly. While some Masters and Mistresses would rather choose a person they’ve met through friends or through BDSM parties and events, deciding to see if they’re a good fit as the training continues, a long term and serious slave and Owner relationship begins with a serious interview. Just as with any
BDSM Mummification Ideas
Restriction is something that most slaves crave. They want to be bundled up as tightly as possible so that they are completely helpless, completely subdued. Many a slave has tried to mummify themselves when they were alone, longing for complete encasement, but never able to find it in a safe way. Masters and Mistresses can use the concept of mummification to help their slaves finally
