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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse

The Difference Between BDSM & Abuse

BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants

Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.

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My Boyfriend Wants Me To Dominate Him

Dear Mistress Sophia, My boyfriend has asked me to dominate. Your emails have been agreat help. I’m not a cruel person so I’m having a hard time.How do I lose my soft touch and become a Mistress? sincerely, V.W. Halifax ================================================================== Here is My response: While many women look soft and mysterious, many more women arelooking to get in touch with their dark and nasty […]

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Choosing the Right Time to Collar Your Submissive

Your slave wants to be your slave. They want a sign that you are committing to them as much as they feel they are devoted to you. Collaring your slave has become a rite of passage in BDSM, and you might want to continue the tradition. But this process isn’t going to mean anything to a slave if they’re not truly ready to be a

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Hard Limits vs Soft Limits

BDSM is a power struggle for most couples that enjoy it. When you’re talking over what you want from your relationship, you might begin with a list of the things that you want to do together, as well as the things that you don’t want to do at all. This allows you to both understand the boundaries that you will and will not cross. However,

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Can BDSM Be Non-Erotic

One of the reasons why many couples begin to test out BDSM in their relationship is to see if they can add some spark to their sex life. But that is not the reason why all people get involved in the BDSM lifestyle. Many times, an individual might want to try out BDSM to see if they can handle the power struggle. They might simply

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Being the Best Slave in Public

While being a slave might be something you reserve for certain times in the bedroom, there will be times when your Mistress/Master wants to take you out in public (assuming you’ve been a good slave). And while it might not take the same shape as your slave sessions, you still need to be ready to prove your commitment to the pleasure and the pride of

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Why Subs Need Random Tests

Every slave learns eventually, but when you’re not testing your slave as often as you should, they’re not going to hang onto a lot of the lessons. You need to make sure that your slave knows that you’re always watching them and that you’re always interested in seeing what you have taught them. Random tests are just the thing to make sure that your slave

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BDSM Is Not A Cure

One thing I hear all the time from people in the lifestyle or who want to enter into the lifestyle is that BDSM is some sort of cure-all for the woes of their life. Yes, BDSM is fun and can be safe, but it’s not going to make you younger or happier. You may have a lovely time in the dungeon and you might even

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