BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
If your Master is interested in making your breasts a part of every scene you do together, you need to make sure that you are prepared. While you might not be able to prepare for everything in the bedroom, a slave’s job is to be as graceful as possible and screaming like a banshee does not count. You can do a few things to prepare […]
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Your Mistress is in control of your penis – whether you like it or not. And you know you like it, so don’t complain too much. But as your training as a slave progresses, you will want to make sure you are learning how to control your erections whenever your Mistress wants you to control them, which may be quite often. Though the sight of
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A Dominant/slave relationship isn’t something that can be described as static. While your partner may not change for years at a time, that doesn’t mean the level of your relationship has to stay the same. In fact, as you and your slave work together, it’s a good idea to push each other’s boundaries to see just how deep you can take the relationship and the
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Dominatrix Question I am in a relationship with a man who is very much into S & M. He is always looking at Mistresses via the web and has been trained previously. I have trained him occasionally however usually after alcohol. He loves Mistresses with big breast which I have the complete opposite and I would like to know a few tips on how I
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No matter how long a scene might be, posture is everything to your Master. You need to make sure that you are graceful and poised, no matter what might be asked of you. In order to keep your posture proper, you need to learn a bit about how to hold yourself internally as well as externally. Though it might seem simple enough to stand up
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You need to have surprises in any relationship and a well-trained slave might feel you have nothing more to show them after you’ve been together for a while. That’s where the mystery box can come in handy. This scene will allow you to be in control of your slave, without having to tell them what’s happening, why it’s happening, or what might happen next. Make
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Dear Mistress Sophia, My boyfriend has asked me to dominate. Your emails have been agreat help. I’m not a cruel person so I’m having a hard time.How do I lose my soft touch and become a Mistress? sincerely, V.W. Halifax ================================================================== Here is My response: While many women look soft and mysterious, many more women arelooking to get in touch with their dark and nasty
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Just the Way He Likes It When your Master likes to have his boots nice and shiny, you need to learn the proper steps in order to make him smile. Boots are not just any other part of your Master’s wardrobe. These boots might be what you stare at for hours until he is convinced that you are worthy to look into his eyes. If
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Your slave wants to be your slave. They want a sign that you are committing to them as much as they feel they are devoted to you. Collaring your slave has become a rite of passage in BDSM, and you might want to continue the tradition. But this process isn’t going to mean anything to a slave if they’re not truly ready to be a
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A Mistress has to get new toys with which to train their slaves in order to be happy with their arrangement. Though bondage is fun and your slave might have cleaned your entire house from top to bottom, you need to push your slave even further if you want to learn just how far they will go for you. Enter the strap on. You’ve both
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