While it might not seem to be the usual story, some dominants aren’t interested in punishing their submissives. They might have to take on this task during the training, but what they’re more interested in is creating true subservience in their slaves. These dominants want to have a slave that simply wants to do what they are told because that is a way to please […]
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As a slave, there are a lot of things that you can be feeling at any given time – pain, pressure, and fear, as well as joy, ecstasy, and sweet submission. But during an intense scene, it can be difficult to decide what you are feeling. You might be concerned that you are being hurt in a way that is not acceptable to you or
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I was sitting in front of My computer the other day and I was wondering what W/we could do at the academy that would help people to learn more about themselves and their desires within the Dom/sub lifestyle. Then it hit Me, one of the best tools within BDSM training is for both the Dom and sub to keep a journal of their thoughts, feelings
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If you’ve been in a BDSM relationship for any period of time, you will notice that some scenes are better than others. Even though you might have everything planned out, this doesn’t mean that you’re going to have it go the way you’ve planned. And in some cases, you might have a very horrible scene, one in which one or both partners have troubles or
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Often, the ‘daddy’ is someone who is in charge of the relationship. While some might not take well to this term, preferring ‘Master’ instead, the softer name has other connotations that might help to create a connection between the partners in a BDSM relationship. The idea of one person being the protector of the other person, the keeper of their safety is something that can
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I just read this article by sub-kathleen and I had to immediately post it for everyone to read. I know I have talked about trust in BDSM multiple times before, but sub-kathleen has experienced a moment that has reshaped her life and her whole ideas of what trust truly is. It is this kind of trust that will build your relationship and strengthen your bond.
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When you want to be in control of another person, you might become a boss or a manager. But for some, this control extends into the bedroom, where they can be in control of another’s feelings, experiences, and their comfort. While some dominants don’t take the time to think about it, when you begin to understand your true motivations for being a Mistress or a
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A submissive is a person that willingly gives over control to a dominant, either in a relationship or within a specific playtime. But what drives a submissive to want to give up this control? There are many different motivations, almost as many as there are submissives in the world. Understanding why a submissive decides to take over their slave role allows not only the slave
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Being a slave is a tough job – and it should be. If you were already good at being a slave, you wouldn’t need a Master/Mistress to help you. As a slave, you have a number of responsibilities on your plate, all of which are important and should be done dutifully and gracefully. If you are an online slave for some or for part of
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The stereotypical dungeon is cold and absent of anything comfortable, but this doesn’t have to be the case. Instead, you can turn your dungeon into a sensual training ground, one in which you can enjoy being comfortable, as well as being challenged. All you need to do is to make a few simple adjustments and you will find that your room is just as tough
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