Like dangling a carrot in front of a rabbit (or at least that works
in cartoons), using orgasm control training in your slave training
relationship can be highly effective. By teaching your slave when
they can and can not orgasm, you will be able to control their mind
as well as their body for your personal pleasure.
The problem most people have with orgasm control training is that
they often think that it’s easier than it looks. All you have to
do is tell the slave not to orgasm or to orgasm and they will do as
you say – if only it were that easy. The problem with orgasm
control training usually lies in understanding how to control the
orgasm for your slave in order to show them how they can take part
in the process as well.
As a Dom/me, you need to realize that a slave needs to be persuaded
to not have an orgasm or distracted from their body’s natural
orgasmic response. But if you can not learn these basics, you will
not have an effective orgasm control training program. You need to
be fully in control of this situation so that your slave doesn’t
attempt to have an orgasm regardless of what you are trying to do.
This will causes the rest of your slave training to crumble -as
soon as your slave sees any weakness on your part.
The first thing you need to do is learn what makes your slave
orgasm in the first place. This seems like a simple task, but with
many female slaves especially, there are things that work for some,
but not for others. The beginning of orgasm control training will
need to be a sort of exploration into what makes your slave ready
to orgasm. It will work well if you bring them to the point of
orgasm and then back away to begin the orgasm deprivation phase of
Then, you can move into guiding your slave into having orgasms from
things that they had never had orgasms doing before. For example,
you might want to stimulate your slave in a known orgasm-making,
but then stimulate them anally or elsewhere to start connecting
these other points to causing orgasm as well. Once you create the
sensations that they could orgasm from other kinds of stimulation,
you will be able to control orgasms in many more ways then you even
You can also prevent them from orgasms ‘normally’ by giving a
punishment at the same time or verbal humiliation. This will begin
to change their associations and change how they respond to
Another tool in orgasm control training is masturbation for your
slave. You might have them masturbate just to the point of almost
coming to orgasm and then stop. This will help to control their
desire to make themselves orgasm and hand over that control to you
– where it should be. You might also have a slave on an orgasm
restriction period or work with them to have them orgasm on command
without any direct stimulation (this takes a while to achieve, but
it can happen).
Orgasm control training has many different variations and levels
that will help you assert your control over a slave. You can
choose from orgasm deprivation, for example as well as orgasm
control by changing the sensations that your slave associates with
‘normal’ orgasms. You can also change what they orgasm from by
incorporating punishments when they orgasm. The possibilities are
Once you can control the orgasms of your slave, you will be in
complete control of their sexual satisfaction. And for many
slaves, this is enough to get them to obey every time.
I hope you enjoyed the orgasm control tutorial.
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