BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
I’m an ex Dom who’s now wanting to be a submissive, I`m seeing a Dom who’s turned out to be a manipulator, but I’m hooked and I’m finding it hard to break free from him because of the way I feel about him, and I’ve broken one of my rules, which is NEVER date anyone you work with. And when I make him mad he […]
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Davina’s morning like most mornings had been hectic. Jumping from one task to the next. Lately it felt like everyday all she was doing was trying to play catch up. The new applicant was supposed to be taking on some of the extra work Davina had been handling, but first Davina had to train her. The new assistant had to be able to perform her
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Click Here To Go Back To The Beginning The new assistant shook her head vigorously, desperately screaming to overcome her mouth gag with a resounding “NOOO!” Which she repeated time and time again, to make sure Davina understood her desire to stay. Davina bent down grabbing her hair at the top of her head and lifting her head up so she could gaze deep into
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The fact that W/we are able to openly participate in BDSM and Dominant/submissive power exchange relationships is a true privilege. One many enjoy but few realize how grateful W/we should all be to have the freedom and the rights to be able enjoy O/our kinks. For many these intensely powerful experiences give an individual an opportunity to finally let go of all their worries and
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BDSM Question: What and how is a collaring ceremony performed? I have earned my collar so, yes I would like for it to be a big deal. Anonymous Sharing Is Caring Share on facebook Share on pinterest Share on twitter Share on reddit Share on tumblr Share on digg Share on skype Share on stumbleupon Share on pocket Share on whatsapp Master Bishop’s Opinion Much
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I find myself sitting in front of my computer like many days but today is different. Today I find myself lost in thoughts of the past 14 years wondering where the time has gone. For the first time in a long time I find myself at a loss for words. To say that this past decade has been a rough time would be a true
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Oh that day when you see all the presents under the Christmas tree is fast approaching. All the possibilities of what might be hidden within all those beautifully wrapped packages as they sit patiently to be opened can be such a tease to a creatively kinky mind. Of course, W/we all want to give O/our loved ones the items they truly wished for. And there
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Despite the commonly held belief that BDSM is essentially all about punishment, pain, whips, chains, and anything that might cause severe agony, the exact opposite is more commonplace. If you dissect the definitions of Bondage, Discipline, Sado, and Masochism, three of those words can be related to pain play, and even bondage can be used in a painful way, depending on how it is applied. If you search for BDSM, many images are submissives with strained faces being subjected to painful experiences. It can be hard to see past that first glimpse for many.
While much attention is focused on discipline and pain for dramatic effect, when it comes to actual submissive training, rewards and positive reinforcement tend to be more effective in submissive training.
As the old saying goes, “You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.”
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Most of us can recall a time when we did something wrong as a child and then were punished for it. We were probably made to sit in a corner or take a ‘time out.’
When a slave has done something wrong, as W/we have learned from childhood, sometimes punishments can be effective at correcting the behavior that is if the submissive wants the behavior changed.
The point of the punishment is to link the inappropriate behavior with the feelings of the unpleasant punishment which will occur if the behavior is repeated. This allows people to learn (some learn more effectively from punishment than others) from their mistakes so they will remember to not let it happen again.
To do this, the Master/Mistress can employ a number of mind controls that will cause the slave to rethink their behavior and reconsider their future actions. Before you can include any kind of punishment training into your slave training there are a few necessities:
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Oh Halloween, the one day a year vanilla people around the world allow themselves to dress up and become the naughty person they truly want to be. Many kinky people dress up and join in all the naughty festivities. But for the most part the real naughty people, the true kinksters tend to get lost in the crowd. This year instead of dressing up for
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