BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
I am one half of a relationship formed around the dynamic known as DaddyDom-LittleGirl (DDLG), and when I explain this to people the question I am inevitably asked is “But why call him Daddy”. This article is my response to every person who has ever asked me this question, and hopefully it will be able to assist others involved in the Caregiving paradigm, whether Adult […]
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By sub serenity i awake under my Owner’s bed, in my comfy kitten crate, curled up on my princess bed with my collar and bell tingling softly in the morning. Laying quietly until He calls me up to greet Him in bed, He opens the door allowing me freedom to hop up. Before He gets ready for the day, He always takes time to stroke
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The problem with watching porn on the Internet and on videos is that you see all of this great BDSM gear that you can’t always find in stores. Or you might find something like a bondage belt that you absolutely adore, only to find it costs hundreds of dollars. Instead of looking at the screen longingly for your next BDSM toy, you might want to
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We all have them, those amazing sexual fantasies; the ones that may have first introduced us to the passions burning with in us, the desires that go beyond the typical sexual acts of the vanilla couple. The romantic, animalistic beautifully painfully and scary pictures painted in all those novels, the Victorian house maid, the pleasure slave, the kidnapped, bound and tortured and the 50 shades
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You are in control at all times, and you know that your slave is listening to you. But when you are new to being a Mistress or when you have certain slaves, there may be times when you feel as though you need to be angry and aggressive. You may feel as though you need to scream and curse in order to get what you
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When you’re in a relationship that focuses on power exchange, it can seem like this happens in one direction: the submissive serves the Dominant, without questions. While this might be the fantasy and the energy you want to create in a scene, it is still just a FANTASY. In reality, there are two (or more) people who each have their own needs and their own
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Accepting yourself for who you are and having the strength to live your life the way you choose too is the definition of empowerment. Despite that most people in the world think submission is a sign of weakness and that all submissives are abused and taken advantage of. It is truly sad that they can not see that empowerment is the true purpose of submissive
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By Mistress Ruth The summer heat hung heavy in the night air when I got a call from a new client. She sounded young over the phone. We spoke for some time about what she wanted and what I expected of her. I took down her address and got ready. As I drove up into the Hollywood Hills I wondered what she looked like. I
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Submissive training actually caused more of an issue between my wife and I see she is a brat also for most of her life she was in full control and never had anyone to share with. So the issue we are having is that we are both dominant. And she wants me to be her MASTER but once play is over her dom side comes
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Let’s face it, being a Master or a Mistress is pretty great. You get to train and control another person, and they are happy serving you. But when you’re first starting out as a Dominant, all of this power can be a bit challenging to manage. To make sure you’re heading in the direction of being a successful Master or Mistress, you need to keep
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