BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Question: Hello, I have been receiving your e-mails and have found them most informative. I’m an online Dominatrix myself. I have many boys under my control. My issue is I have one who I love dearly, but he likes plans. I go into it with a general idea and just flow with it. Do you have any suggestions for plotting and planning out a scene? […]
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Its always a good idea to make sure your submissive is getting enough exercise in their life. So make sure you take them for regular walks. Here a question for you: Dominants, are you walking your subs regularly? submissives, do you enjoy being taken for walks with your collar and leash? Leave your answers in the comment section below Some people look at Dominant/submissive relationships
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Those that want to explore the dominance and submission roles of BDSM might find that the Master/Mistress and slave roles just don’t appeal to them. Instead, they want to have a sense of giving over power, but in a less authoritarian way. If this sounds like something that might appeal to you, it can help for you to think about how you might be a
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Recently i was criticized for my efforts to continually seek out knowledge so that i can continue to grow and develop and blossom as a slave to my Master. And more specifically for my on-line slave training and my eagerness to share what i am learning. To that i say “How Sad” for those who believe they have no more left to learn. Fortunately i
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I’m a 24-year-old girl with a 29-year-old boyfriend. We’ve been in a relationship for 5 years. I’ve always been used to being controlled, but now he wants me in charge. I’m not used to this and need a little advice, if you can help! Obviously I’ve been getting your emails, and they do help. I enjoy being worshiped and knowing my boyfriend’s happiness in in
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If you’re a Master/Mistress that wants to make sure your slave only hungers for you, then you may want to try out some chastity training. But how can you be sure that your slave is following your commands when you’re not around? How to enforce chastity with your submissive? First of all, if there is any doubt about the trust in your relationship, this might
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It is one thing to flog a submissive, but it is another thing for a submissive to want and desire that flogging. To see them shake with excitement from just the idea. To see their body tense in anticipation and beg to have the session begin. To hear them moan with the slightest touch. Then people say that this is cruel, humiliating and derogatory. How
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Lead or Follow? Dominant or submissive? For many people this seems like such a silly question. If you are interested in BDSM then obviously you must know what you prefer. However, this is one of the most complex questions within BDSM. You must truly know yourself and your desires to understand your answer to this question. Many people will say they are Dominant for years,
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When you’re ready to take your BDSM playtime to a new level, it’s time to change the scenery. Heading into the vet office allows you a lot of different options for a Master or Mistress and their slave, allowing the dominant to be in complete control of the ‘animal’ that is brought in for help. You can create a dark and naughty scene, or you
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It has been a year and a half since Master and i began our Master/ slave, 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship and the journey as i have previously written has been amazing and enlightening and a host of other positive and warm adjectives. But this isn’t just a journey for Master and I, it is a growth and path to a new dynamic with significant
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