BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
If you want to bring your partner into a state of tension, even before a scene begins, you might want to look at the value of shaving right before you begin. Not only is this a hot way to begin a scene, but it can also create anticipation that will make for intense orgasms and BDSM play. Nothing says control like telling your partner that […]
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Mistresses have to do a lot to control their slaves. Not only do they have to plan out lessons and training sessions, but they also have to maintain razor sharp focus as the scene progresses. As a result, some Mistresses can begin to feel burnt out and they can begin to feel exhausted by their slaves. Some Mistresses decide that in order to keep their
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No matter how much your Master seems to care for you, it can be difficult to get over your body issues. So many women have to deal with this problem in their lives, but when you’re trying to impress your Master, it can become even more magnified. You might be afraid that any small flaw in your body will upset your Master and make him
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As always W/we at the BDSM Training Academy are constantly looking to improve upon everything that W/we do. W/we are strong believers in the fact that nothing is ever perfect (no matter how hard W/we try) and that there will always be more to learn. This is why W/we continue to add more and more information to the BDSM Slave Training Guide, because W/we believe
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If your Master is interested in making your breasts a part of every scene you do together, you need to make sure that you are prepared. While you might not be able to prepare for everything in the bedroom, a slave’s job is to be as graceful as possible and screaming like a banshee does not count. You can do a few things to prepare
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Your Mistress is in control of your penis – whether you like it or not. And you know you like it, so don’t complain too much. But as your training as a slave progresses, you will want to make sure you are learning how to control your erections whenever your Mistress wants you to control them, which may be quite often. Though the sight of
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A Dominant/slave relationship isn’t something that can be described as static. While your partner may not change for years at a time, that doesn’t mean the level of your relationship has to stay the same. In fact, as you and your slave work together, it’s a good idea to push each other’s boundaries to see just how deep you can take the relationship and the
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Dominatrix Question I am in a relationship with a man who is very much into S & M. He is always looking at Mistresses via the web and has been trained previously. I have trained him occasionally however usually after alcohol. He loves Mistresses with big breast which I have the complete opposite and I would like to know a few tips on how I
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No matter how long a scene might be, posture is everything to your Master. You need to make sure that you are graceful and poised, no matter what might be asked of you. In order to keep your posture proper, you need to learn a bit about how to hold yourself internally as well as externally. Though it might seem simple enough to stand up
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You need to have surprises in any relationship and a well-trained slave might feel you have nothing more to show them after you’ve been together for a while. That’s where the mystery box can come in handy. This scene will allow you to be in control of your slave, without having to tell them what’s happening, why it’s happening, or what might happen next. Make
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