BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Whether you are Dominant or submissive, the safety or you and your partner should be one of your biggest concern, if not the biggest. Making sure everything is consensual in your BDSM practices is just as important as safety, so let U/us not forget that. However, for this journal I wanted to focus on safety as I feel many people tend to become overwhelmed when […]
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Question: What if trust is broken by the Master? How do you regain that broken trust? anonymous Master Bishop’s Opinions The Master in a D/s relationship has an important job. They are tasked with the training and the care for their submissive. This role requires they be specific, clear, and consistent. It also requires that any agreements in place be followed exactly, so the
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Question: I find myself in a very testing situation with my submissive. Our D/s relationship was born from an affair we had & has on the whole, been very fulfilling for us both. However, I`m finding that she regularly attempts to undermine me or she is disobedient to ensure that she is disciplined. We’ve always used spanking or flogging as a form of punishment but
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When you’re a Dominant, you’ll be the one who is going to tell the submissive what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. However those parts of your relationship might seem clearer than other parts. While the submissive might think they simply have to follow your orders, they need to do more for you than they may have expected at first.
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Unfortunately my Dom has ignored me for about a month, all the time saying nothing was wrong but when I confronted him he kind of dismissed me and doesn’t want to continue as he prefers to have several pets not just me, which is not what he said when we first met, leaving me upset and hurt. It`s bad enough dealing with this sort of
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Over the last year I have overheard, been apart of and seen conversations around one subject: How do I make money as a Dominatrix. As far as I know the Pro Domme industry has been a big demand for a very long time. There are many men and some women who will pay to have a woman fulfill their desires of being Dominated. What I
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I am brand SPANKING (pun intended) new to this dominatrix thing. I fell absolutely in love with it as soon as I saw the welts left on my slave’s ass from our first spanking session! Can you give me an example of how a few sessions might go with you and your slave? How you start, what you do, how you talk, how you finish
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If you look around your house right now, it might not look like it’s suitable for a slave and their Master or Mistress. Everything looks mundane and you might even think that your training is suffering as a result. Instead of thinking about how you can buy one of those gothic castles with the place to lock up your slave, think about your workout room.
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I have a quick question. I`ve been a closet Master as I call it, for 5 years. I finally came out and started joining the local scene. Now lately, I feel I regret that choice because all I`ve been is judged based in my methods of actually caring for my toys, my slaves…loving them after they do tasks for me. I`ve been judged based on
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I have come to a very real, and potentially very bad place in my D/S relationship: We are both pretty new to the scene and to be expected I’m not very good at it, but my sub isn’t very good at communicating, what she wants/needs, so we are at a semi impasse. The most I know is, I’m doing something wrong and she isn’t feeling
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