BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship. In no way shape or form, would W/we ever support any form of abuse. It is wrong to physically or emotionally lash out at another person and cause that person any form of mental, emotional or physical harm or duress.
In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self thus allowing for more intense experiences. In the image below you will be able to see a list of the big differences that I believe separate BDSM from abuse. Have a look and let Me know what you think.
As I am sure you are well aware, the world is currently in the midst of a global pandemic. Fear has swept the globe and depending on where you reside different measures have been put in place to help stop the spread of this disease. Here at the BDSM Training Academy, W/we have spent a lot of time discussing how to keep yourself safe within […]
I wanted to write about a powerful topic that must people avoid and tends to keep the majority of us down. It considered worst than any four letter word and even more taboo to talk about these days then BDSM. And that is “FAILURE” In a time when the law of attraction and positive thinking have practically become new age religions. Nobody wants to even
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“Stand Up!” Davina commanded, “Faster, FASTER!”
Desperately trying to move as quickly as humanly possible on unstable quivering legs was a harder task than one would expect.
Davina knew this, but her sympathy was lacking due to her own needs to meet her Boss’ requirements.
Impatient Davina, grabbed her assistant by the hair and arm, helping to peel her off the table.
Quickly spinning her around, Davina gazed into her assistant’s eyes
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Submissive Question:
i have finally figured out that i am far more submissive then i ever thought possible. That is all thanks to you and all the information you have given me. i don’t know where i would be without your guidance.
While i know i want to be more submissive to my mistress, i find there are times when i’m just not in the mood or i can’t get into a submissive headspace.
How can i get myself in the mood when i’m not or get into a submissive headspace, especially when my Mistress wants me to serve her?
Sincerely,
DK, New York
Read Master Bishop’s Opinion Here
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Much of what we do in BDSM involves roleplay, and not just the ‘strict teacher / naughty student’ dress-up variety. Simply acting as the top or bottom in a scene is a role in itself, complete with its own responsibilities, energy, and intentions. The more we’re able to immerse ourselves in the headspace of our role during play, the more powerful the experience becomes.
The intense experiences we have during play have the potential to transform our everyday lives, for better or worse. For BDSM to be a healthy practice, it’s crucial that we refine our ability to cleanly separate fantasy from reality. Learning to compartmentalize BDSM will allow you to reap the benefits of kinky sexploration while continuing to function harmoniously outside the bedroom.
If we don’t learn to compartmentalize, BDSM can end up negatively impacting our psychological state, our relationships, and even our career.
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i awaken at the first rays of the sun, blinking… slowly getting out of bed… i am used to it by now… unlike the routine that stretches out in front of me…i am here to be trained as a love slave… Your love slave, for I belong to You now… the purpose of my very existence is to bring You pleasure… in whichever form You
A fantasy night with Master by slave d A fictional female submissive Dominant male erotic story (i do not fantasize about purposely displeasing Master in any way, however, as a slave-in-training, i recognize there are going to be times where this may unintentionally happen. This is a fantasy about one of those instances.) It is early evening, and Master has just finished the dinner i
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In my last article, (Why Some Alphas Desire Submission) I discussed the recent research showing how everybody suffers from what is called “Mental Exhaustion.” It is this form of cognitive exhaustion that greatly reduces the number of decisions that can be made everyday by a single person. Once too many decisions have been made an individual’s ability to properly make further decisions and think critically
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If you can’t tell, I love the St. Andrews Cross. he cross offers the potential for so much play. Bondage and restraint, Pain and impact play, Sensation and surprise…Whatever you desire the St. Andrew’s Cross is my favorite piece of dungeon furniture to play on.
The wood was cool against my cheek, flush with anticipation of what was to come and the heat of the first strike across my bottom. With a blindfold stealing my vision, plummeting me into darkness, I could only wait, knowing that the next sensation could be almost anything — the sharp smack of a paddle, the searing pain of the cane, or a sensual caress down my naked back.
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While spanking is not required in BDSM nor does everyone love to engage in spanking, it is a popular kinky activity. Whether you love the control, the pain, or the intimacy of spanking, it’s worth exploring other avenues. Even if you don’t engage in anything other than your favorite bare-handed spanking, you may pick up some new tricks in the process.
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