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The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse
I continually receive emails and comments at The BDSM Training Academy about how BDSM is a form of abuse. I find it very upsetting, especially when we try so hard to educate people on how to incorporate a safe, sane and consensual form of BDSM here at the Academy. BDSM is meant to enhance and strengthen a healthy, loving relationship.
The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants
Choosing the Dominant that you want to serve is a serious decision. One that is taken far too lightly but in fact should not be. Making yourself mentally and physically vulnerable to the wrong person can have terrible repercussions. A genuine Dominant can produce a supportive relationship that will allow a submissive to feel safe enough to be their true self.
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Dominatrix Question: Knowing What to Say to Your Slave
I have found a sub. I am female he is male. We have chatted on line for a long time and met once for a brief time, just to get acquainted. He wants to submit to me. To be my slave 24/7. I am thrilled and excited. We plan to meet in 3 days for him to submit. I am not sure what to say
Take Pride in your submission
i am a submissive/slave and one of the most powerful and gratifying aspects of my submission is bringing Pride to my Master. This is a cherished goal and one i aspire to at all times. But why, why do i work so hard to take pride in being a submissive/slave? ************************************************************************************ For Master: When I began learning how to be a proper submissive/slave to Master
Ways To Keep Your Sub’s Attention In Public
The work of a Master is never quite done, is it? No matter how many hours you might spend in the dungeon, you know your slave needs more work. And just because you’re not strapping your slave to a table, they should be under your command. You can take your BDSM play out of the bedroom by giving your slave a few lessons of submission
Dom/sub Journal: Giving And Receiving In BDSM
As human beings, W/we have an intrinsic need to feel appreciated. Whether W/we are Dominant or submissive, if W/we feel like W/we are not appreciated for the things W/we do for people in O/our lives, it can become extremely demoralizing. A demoralized sub or Dom, does not lead to an overly happy relationship. Therefore to keep your partner happy its important to make them feel
How To Deal With A Slave That Won’t Leave
Mistresses, though just as powerful as any Master, often have unique problems when it comes to slave training. One of the most common troubles a Mistress can have is a slave that will not leave. Whether this borders on stalking or perhaps just a misunderstanding between the Mistress and slave, the situations will vary. However, a Mistress needs to know how to keep themselves safe
Warning: Fake Profiles & Fraudulent Emails
It has recently come to My attention that there are people on the net claiming to be associated with the BDSM Training Academy when there are not. These people are saying that they are either Myself (Master Bishop) or Mistress Sophia or claiming they are located at another branch some where other then O/our head office. These people will claim that they: 1) Have a
Sex Shop Role Play Scene
Role playing is a vital part not only of training in BDSM, but also in the way that a slave and their Master or Mistress can begin to challenge their new skills. By taking the slave into a new situation, the slave begins to see how they are progressing in their role and the Master or Mistress can begin to see how far they can
When A Dominant Does Not Want To Hurt A Sub
While it might not seem to be the usual story, some dominants aren’t interested in punishing their submissives. They might have to take on this task during the training, but what they’re more interested in is creating true subservience in their slaves. These dominants want to have a slave that simply wants to do what they are told because that is a way to please
Pain Versus Anxiety In BDSM
As a slave, there are a lot of things that you can be feeling at any given time – pain, pressure, and fear, as well as joy, ecstasy, and sweet submission. But during an intense scene, it can be difficult to decide what you are feeling. You might be concerned that you are being hurt in a way that is not acceptable to you or
Different Kinds of Gags
When you first think of gags, you probably get turned on. But after that, you want to think about the different kinds of gags there are and how they can be used in different scenes. While ball gags are ball gags, it’s the way they’re designed that can make a slave moan, albeit muffled. Related Posts BDSM Protocols: Part 1 – Introduction I feel like
Dom/sub Journal: Embarrassed
I was sitting in front of My computer the other day and I was wondering what W/we could do at the academy that would help people to learn more about themselves and their desires within the Dom/sub lifestyle. Then it hit Me, one of the best tools within BDSM training is for both the Dom and sub to keep a journal of their thoughts, feelings
Did Santa Screw You Over The Holidays
I’m sure you wrote out your letter to Santa explaining how nice you had been throughout the year. Of course leaving out all the naughty activities you enjoy partaking in. Sadly, Santa Claus is much harder to fool then you can imagine. This could be the only reason why you didn’t get what you really wanted for the holidays. Well as much as I would