Opera Gloves in Your BDSM Scene

When you go to see a play, you might notice that the props can often make an ordinary scene one that is  Wet look Long Glovesmemorable. The same thing can be said for BDSM scenes. Though you might have a powerful voice and a strong presence, there’s something more exciting about a Mistress or Master that pulls out a prop and begins to throw it around at a slave or near a slave. And the most innocuous props are the ones that really seem to make the difference. Opera gloves, though simple looking at first, are able to turn a simple scene into one that changes a slave – for the better.

Wearing Gloves to Please

Though it doesn’t really matter who’s wearing the gloves, the Mistress is the most common person for the job. She will wear the gloves at the start of a scene or she will show them to the slave as she is putting them on, ever more seductively and slowly. This process serves to show the slave that she is trying to turn him on, but also that he is only just an observer to her beauty…until she decides to allow him otherwise. The gloves might also be a common addition to the scene, but they might only be taken out and used as something more once in a while. It’s up to you how you want to begin to change the way that you interact with a slave.

 

The Glove Restraint Method

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Sub Question: What If I Can’t Provide What My Dom/me Wants?

I love bondage and that’s the only thing that really gets me sexually in the mood with my mistress. She likes to bind me and fuck me but what do I do if my mistress wants something I can’t provide?

Sincerely,

LJ

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Mistress Brianne’s Opinion

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Dom/sub Journal: What Is Your Purpose

W/we all need to feel like W/we have purpose in O/our lives.  A person who does not have any sense of purpose can suffer from feelings of depression, stress, and anxiety.  Their days overwhelm them despite much of the time they feel like they have nothing to do.  They don’t have any plans for the future and any future ideas just cause more depress and stress.

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How To Plan A BDSM Scene

Many Dominants try to train submissives by simply doing whatever comes to mind or by having a basic outline of what they may want to do.  Many experienced Dominants can get away with this because they have experienced much of the different training scenarios previously and know how they will be able to handle any changes they need to make on the fly.  Where this becomes an issue, is with new Dominants.

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Wrestling and BDSM Training

Wrestling is a kink that many people often forget about.  Its the perfect way to physically Dominate your submissive and let them know who is truly in charge. The Dom and sub can wrestle each other and the Dom gets the sub into a position they can not get out of that is when the real fun begins. You too can incorporate wrestling into your BDSM playtime, maybe as a way to spice things up or perhaps as a new way of showing your submissive that you will always be in control of them, even if it is just physically. And no, you don’t need to be a professional wrestler in order to take part in the fun.

Competition in the Bedroom

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Vulnerability and Dependence In BDSM Relationships

In every slave training experience there comes a time when the questions of vulnerability and dependence will need to be discussed. Slave training is not realistic on a 24/7 basis, so focusing on the way a slave feels when the Dominant is something that needs to be considered. Most people aren’t quite sure how to…

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BDSM Question: My Submissive Likes A Plan

Question: Hello, I have been receiving your e-mails and have found them most informative. I’m an online Dominatrix myself. I have many boys under my control. My issue is I have one who I love dearly, but he likes plans. I go into it with a general idea and just flow with it. Do you have any suggestions for plotting and planning out a scene? Thank you

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Becoming A Pet In BDSM

Those that want to explore the dominance and submission roles of BDSM might find that the Master/Mistress and slave roles just don’t appeal to them. Instead, they want to have a sense of giving over power, but in a less authoritarian way. If this sounds like something that might appeal to you, it can help for you to think about how you might be a pet for someone else, or how you might have your slave become a pet for you. This role of being an animal versus a human will encourage the power dynamic to change, but without the need for calling anyone Master or Mistress.

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Guidance, Education, Knowledge and The Gift

Recently i was criticized for my efforts to continually seek out knowledge so that i can continue to grow and develop and blossom as a slave to my Master. And more specifically for my on-line slave training and my eagerness to share what i am learning.  To that i say “How Sad” for those who believe they have no more left to learn.

Fortunately i am extremely hungry for knowledge and an article i read on-line gave me valuable insight and inspiration to try and use one of the recommendations to bring a new and hopefully pleasurable experience to Master. The end result was truly overwhelming and added a new depth to O/our passion as well as O/our M/s dynamic. It was so intense and passionate and binding that i was brought to tears.

But, had i chosen to stop learning, had i chosen to not put into practice some advice that was given in an article i read on-line, i may have missed this beautiful experience and gift. How many experiences or gifts are you willing to miss?

Please allow me to share how by being willing to learn and apply that knowledge and to grow in my submission and service to Master i was given an amazing gift of tears one night.

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