Dominatrix Question: How Do I Get Inside My Boyfriends Head

I’m a 24-year-old girl with a 29-year-old boyfriend. We’ve been in a relationship for 5 years. I’ve always been used to being controlled, but now he wants me in charge. I’m not used to this and need a little advice, if you can help! Obviously I’ve been getting your emails, and they do help.

I enjoy being worshiped and knowing my boyfriend’s happiness in in my hands, but I’m not used to being mean and controlling like he wants me to. How do I find out how to get inside his head and please him by not pleasing him??

Thanks! LB, Pennsylvania

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Mistress Brianne’s Response

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Dom/sub Journal: Lead Or Follow?

Lead or Follow?  Dominant or submissive?  For many people this seems like such a silly question. If you are interested in BDSM then obviously you must know what you prefer.  However, this is one of the most complex questions within BDSM.  You must truly know yourself and your desires to understand your answer to this…

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Vet Office Roleplay Scene

When you’re ready to take your BDSM playtime to a new level, it’s time to change the scenery. Heading into the vet office allows you a lot of different options for a Master or Mistress and their slave, allowing the dominant to be in complete control of the ‘animal’ that is brought in for help. You can create a dark and naughty scene, or you can keep this scene light and humorous, depending on the state of your training and what you want to accomplish with a slave.

The Right Office Equipment for Vets

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Essentials to Being a Daddy Dominant

Being a Daddy Dominant might be fun, but it’s not always easy, especially when you’re first starting out. If you’re interested in dominating someone else, you need to know that they’re looking to you not only for guidance, but also for reassurance that you know what you’re doing. In order to make sure that you’re the best Dominant possible, you need to keep in mind the following essentials in the dungeon.

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Having Fun in a BDSM Relationship

While the movies and books you might have seen demonstrating BDSM relationships make it seem like BDSM is all about pain, this is far from the case. Instead, you might want to look at the ways in which BDSM can be fun, even silly. For some couples that still want to play with each other instead of being serious all the time, you can still enjoy BDSM when you’re laughing in a scene.

Make Role Playing Ridiculous

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The Essentials of Keeping Your Sex Toys Clean

If you’ve reached into your sex toy chest and wondered why things weren’t as fresh as they once were, chances are you need to do some spring sex toy cleaning. Sex toys are wonderful marvels to add to your BDSM or just your vanilla sex play, but they also get a little sloppy – if you’re using them right. To make sure things stay hygienic, especially when you’re playing with more than one partner, you might want to follow these sage sex toy cleaning tips.

Choose the Right Sex Toys

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Dom/sub Journal: Fantasy Vs Reality

Many Dominants and submissives fantasize for years about the lifestyle before ever getting a chance to experience it.  When they finally have a chance to get their first taste, the reality of what they experience tends to fall short of their fantasy.  Even experienced Doms and subs fantasize, but they also can find that fantasy…

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Submissive Question: Can You Serve And Love Your Dominant?

I received this question a number of times, so I thought I should answer it.  Many submissives find themselves serving a Dominant that they respect, admire, and appreciate.  Eventually there comes a time after loyally serving when a submissive may develop feelings for the Dominant.  The question you may ask is:

Is it ok to be in love with a Dominant?

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Master Bishop’s Response

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