Essentials to Being a Daddy Dominant

Being a Daddy Dominant might be fun, but it’s not always easy, especially when you’re first starting out. If you’re interested in dominating someone else, you need to know that they’re looking to you not only for guidance, but also for reassurance that you know what you’re doing. In order to make sure that you’re the best Dominant possible, you need to keep in mind the following essentials in the dungeon.

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Having Fun in a BDSM Relationship

While the movies and books you might have seen demonstrating BDSM relationships make it seem like BDSM is all about pain, this is far from the case. Instead, you might want to look at the ways in which BDSM can be fun, even silly. For some couples that still want to play with each other instead of being serious all the time, you can still enjoy BDSM when you’re laughing in a scene.

Make Role Playing Ridiculous

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The Essentials of Keeping Your Sex Toys Clean

If you’ve reached into your sex toy chest and wondered why things weren’t as fresh as they once were, chances are you need to do some spring sex toy cleaning. Sex toys are wonderful marvels to add to your BDSM or just your vanilla sex play, but they also get a little sloppy – if you’re using them right. To make sure things stay hygienic, especially when you’re playing with more than one partner, you might want to follow these sage sex toy cleaning tips.

Choose the Right Sex Toys

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Dom/sub Journal: Fantasy Vs Reality

Many Dominants and submissives fantasize for years about the lifestyle before ever getting a chance to experience it.  When they finally have a chance to get their first taste, the reality of what they experience tends to fall short of their fantasy.  Even experienced Doms and subs fantasize, but they also can find that fantasy…

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Submissive Question: Can You Serve And Love Your Dominant?

I received this question a number of times, so I thought I should answer it.  Many submissives find themselves serving a Dominant that they respect, admire, and appreciate.  Eventually there comes a time after loyally serving when a submissive may develop feelings for the Dominant.  The question you may ask is:

Is it ok to be in love with a Dominant?

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The BDSM Training Academy On Facebook

When W/we first created the BDSM Training Academy, W/we created a facebook fanpage to accompany it.  After only a month, facebook monitors shut down the account.  They was nothing graphic on the fanpage, no nudity or sexual content of any kind.  Even though W/we were only providing educational content, O/our understanding was that the topic…

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Dominatrix Question: Knowing What to Say to Your Slave

I have found a sub. I am female he is male. We have chatted on line for a long time and met once for a brief time, just to get acquainted. He wants to submit to me. To be my slave 24/7. I am thrilled and excited. We plan to meet in 3 days for him to submit. I am not sure what to say to him during this submission. I know he will be naked, kneeling before me. Help, what do I say?  I think once that part is over, I can take control, but I know this part is very important to him and I want to get it right.
Anonymous

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Mistress Brianne’s Response

Knowing what to say in a scene is often far more important than anything you might do to a slave. As a Mistress who is taking on a slave 24/7, you can’t simply say that it’s time to begin. You need to make sure that you are saying something that will set the tone for your time together. First impressions do count and they will be important for you both.

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Take Pride in your submission

i am a submissive/slave and one of the most powerful and gratifying aspects of my submission is bringing Pride to my Master. This is a cherished goal and one i aspire to at all times.  But why, why do i work so hard to take pride in being a submissive/slave? ************************************************************************************  For Master:  When I…

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Ways To Keep Your Sub’s Attention In Public

The work of a Master is never quite done, is it? No matter how many hours you might spend in the dungeon, you know your slave needs more work. And just because you’re not strapping your slave to a table, they should be under your command. You can take your BDSM play out of the bedroom by giving your slave a few lessons of submission to use in public. Subtle, but effective, when your slave has to perform as a slave in public, not only will your training be more powerful, but she will know who the boss is – no matter who is around.

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Dom/sub Journal: Giving And Receiving In BDSM

As human beings, W/we have an intrinsic need to feel appreciated. Whether W/we are Dominant or submissive, if W/we feel like W/we are not appreciated for the things W/we do for people in O/our lives, it can become extremely demoralizing. A demoralized sub or Dom, does not lead to an overly happy relationship. Therefore to…

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How To Deal With A Slave That Won’t Leave

Mistresses, though just as powerful as any Master, often have unique problems when it comes to slave training. One of the most common troubles a Mistress can have is a slave that will not leave. Whether this borders on stalking or perhaps just a misunderstanding between the Mistress and slave, the situations will vary. However, a Mistress needs to know how to keep themselves safe and how to deal with a troublesome slave they may not want to train anymore. Even BDSM relationships end sometimes. Here’s how to do it quickly and safely.

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